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My 11 month old kitten is incredibly fearful and skittish, going into panic mode at seemingly nothing.
My friend took in a stray cat who turned out to be pregnant. He is from that litter. His mom, though stray, was very friendly and gregarious. He has only in that home, and in my home. When I first met him at 6 weeks he wasn't very social, but it wasn't concerning. He was the same at 8 weeks when I brought him to my house. He soon warmed up to me and my girlfriend, he has always loved my dog and other cat. Every Wednesday I would bring him to my parents house to get him used to new situations and places. Each time he became more and more skittish until I had to stop. I assumed he would get more and more used to it, but he only got worse. When someone would come to my house when he was younger he would hide. Again, he never got used to it, for each time someone came over he would get more fearful, not more used to it. He finally 'broke' when a plumber came in my house for 15 mins this summer. He went into hiding, terrified of everything, and it took him over a week to leave the living room. Currently he's afraid of me if I make a move he doesn't like. Examples- I wore a hat he hadn't seen before. This caused him to be fearful of me for days. I wore a new pair of pants that he wasn't used to the smell of, he was afraid of me for days after. The other day I stopped home to feed my dog at lunch time, I was in a rush, he could sense I was in a rush, and now he's been afraid of me for the past 3 days.
I can no longer have people over to my house because of how fearful he is, and how long it takes him to recover. I myself have to tip toe around. I can't walk fast, walk with heavy feet, or make any quick movements, or he'll go into hiding for days.
He has never ever had a negative experience with humans. He went from my friends house to my house and has been spoiled and treated like a king.
He has been to the vet for this, and he was prescribed Prozac, however I haven't given it to him as the main symptom is lack of appetite, and he is a very very poor eater. He's been hospitalized twice for not eating, and I can't risk that side effect. The vet couldn't figure out why he wouldn't eat, he currently has a clean bill of health.
Does anyone have any suggestions? *PLEASE* do not tell me to use food as a motivator. He has less than ZERO food motivation. Treats, tuna, cat food, it doesn't matter. He doesn't have a good appetite and he's not in any way motivated by food. He also is not motivated by toys, so please don't mention that.
I'm getting at my wits end here and I'm not sure what to do. I have tried socializing him and he only gets worse, not better. I can't go on any trips where someone would come over and feed him because it would send him into a panic. I coddle him like a baby and he's still fearful of me if I make the wrong move.
My friend took in a stray cat who turned out to be pregnant. He is from that litter. His mom, though stray, was very friendly and gregarious. He has only in that home, and in my home. When I first met him at 6 weeks he wasn't very social, but it wasn't concerning. He was the same at 8 weeks when I brought him to my house. He soon warmed up to me and my girlfriend, he has always loved my dog and other cat. Every Wednesday I would bring him to my parents house to get him used to new situations and places. Each time he became more and more skittish until I had to stop. I assumed he would get more and more used to it, but he only got worse. When someone would come to my house when he was younger he would hide. Again, he never got used to it, for each time someone came over he would get more fearful, not more used to it. He finally 'broke' when a plumber came in my house for 15 mins this summer. He went into hiding, terrified of everything, and it took him over a week to leave the living room. Currently he's afraid of me if I make a move he doesn't like. Examples- I wore a hat he hadn't seen before. This caused him to be fearful of me for days. I wore a new pair of pants that he wasn't used to the smell of, he was afraid of me for days after. The other day I stopped home to feed my dog at lunch time, I was in a rush, he could sense I was in a rush, and now he's been afraid of me for the past 3 days.
I can no longer have people over to my house because of how fearful he is, and how long it takes him to recover. I myself have to tip toe around. I can't walk fast, walk with heavy feet, or make any quick movements, or he'll go into hiding for days.
He has never ever had a negative experience with humans. He went from my friends house to my house and has been spoiled and treated like a king.
He has been to the vet for this, and he was prescribed Prozac, however I haven't given it to him as the main symptom is lack of appetite, and he is a very very poor eater. He's been hospitalized twice for not eating, and I can't risk that side effect. The vet couldn't figure out why he wouldn't eat, he currently has a clean bill of health.
Does anyone have any suggestions? *PLEASE* do not tell me to use food as a motivator. He has less than ZERO food motivation. Treats, tuna, cat food, it doesn't matter. He doesn't have a good appetite and he's not in any way motivated by food. He also is not motivated by toys, so please don't mention that.
I'm getting at my wits end here and I'm not sure what to do. I have tried socializing him and he only gets worse, not better. I can't go on any trips where someone would come over and feed him because it would send him into a panic. I coddle him like a baby and he's still fearful of me if I make the wrong move.