Usually Angel just watches the kitten play in bags and with the toys. They can have treets together no problem. Angel does not attack the kitten at all. My problem is, the kitten now 3 months old, attacks Angel. Last night was the worst. Abby ran at Angel and threw Angel on her back and really started fighting, or playing... which Angel does not really appreciate. The screams are terrable. We put the kitten in her room. this is happening more and more. Angel loves to just lay around the house, enjoy the sun, and does not mind watching the kitten. As long as the kitten does not get too close to Angel, there is no problem.
Now for my problem.... Angel is one of our first two cats we had in our lives. We lost Angels non biological sister in January. She was 13. The got along and gave each other a 5 foot safe way and did not get too close. Angel hissed once in a while when Mittens got in her territory.
Anyways... our love for Angel is way up there. We hate to see her attacked and going through hell. She is not the same cat any more. She will not sit on our lap, or go in the sun. She is too worried about the kitten attack. I told my wife last night that Abby was going back to the shelter this week. I cannot see Angel suffer. She has earned her place here at the house, and gives us unconditonal love. And what are we giving her in return... agraivation and fear... its not fair.
Any advise to try to keep Abby... she does have a very nice room for herself, it has toys, fouton, litterbox, water, food, and window. I have had her in there since last night, but do not think this is fair either... Please help. I really do not want to give her up.. but Angel is my first love..... must be... since I told my wife out of fustration,, she can go to the shelter with Abby.