Did the females you had come fro the same litter or were they introduced later in life? Im rethinking my decision again because I walked in the catroom and the sisters were cuddling together. Ugh, I cant decide!
My two females were a year apart in age. One was completely docile and the other was very aggressive. It could have been as much personality as anything else.
My experiences with girls really vary. Sibling girls can be a lot of squabbling but usually it's no different than human sisters, and an hour later they're cuddled up, but problems arise if there are two dominant types (or two defensive types, both wanting to be tops but neither are really cut out for it). Same with boys, but IME their fights/arguing are scarier, louder, but usually forgotten almost immediately whereas the girls can hold a grudge.
I have two boys and a girl right now. The whole statement could apply to mine but this part the most. Rocket once sat next to a dresser a mouse was hiding under from 4pm through night and into the next day. I found a broken mouse when I got home from work at 5pm the next day. The boys? Fury got bored waiting for the mouse the about fifteen minutes after to ran under the dresser.
) were a girl and boy about a month apart and they were soulmates until they died. I always caught them cuddling and cleaning each other and playing. I really hope I get another loving pair like that 
Well, yes. I got sisters from the same litter because I thought they would be lifelong friends. I had a seven-year-old male at the time. I have many, many photos of sisters Iris and Lily cuddling when they were kittens. As they got older, Iris decided she was in love with Max. Followed him everywhere, curled up against him, encouraged him to groom her. Iris and Lily began to avoid each other and in fact, seemed to dislike each other. The cute, playful chasing of kitten hood became angry, hissing chasing in adulthood. Max is gone, but now at age 14, the girls still want nothing to do with one another. Darn it.
Yes actually I am the foster mom! I got mom and her 7 kittens when they were 4 weeks old. Ive definitely been able to spot which ones are more outgoing and which are more shy. I have no idea how to spot dominance at thie age? The girl kitten we are keeping (her name is Sage) is the most outgoing, she was the first to come out of the kennel when we brought them home, and doesnt run at the vacuum or other items I’ve introduced them to. She loves her cuddles and will fall asleep on whoever is holding her. She is pretty laid back but also quite playful. She often sleeps on the cat tree instead of piled up in the box with the others, but I think this is because not all of them can actually get up the tree yet. The boy I was thinking of keeping (Shadow) is a bit more shy. He runs from strange noises (but only stays hidden for a few seconds, it’s not like things terrify him, but he is definitely more cautious). He is also a cuddle bug and very content to be held in someones arms. He is quite laid back. The other girl Im considering (named CC) is similar to the the boy, but a bit more playful and more adventurous (she is the first to get up most of our climbing structures). She tends to play a lot with Sage, and in some ways is more similar to her, but I wonder if their similarties would cause more problems down the line. It is such a hard choice. Also, two of them may seem glued together for a day or two, but then they will both paor up with others. None of them seem to not get along. Im just not sure whether to pair up more similar personalities or if opposites attract?
my girls play together, and love on each other more than they do the boys. The boys play together more, they play with the girls, but the boys like to play rough! the girls not so much, they like to chase with the boys, but when the much bigger boys start trying to play fight the girls end it. The boys play fight together all the time and love it.
I think just go with your gut and it will all work out.
.Or just get them all and then you dont have to decide...lol
