Hi,
We adopted a rescue tabby kitten (born in captivity, not on the street) who is now 7 months old, then around a month later acquired a three month old black and white kitten as a companion for her. Both are girls, and the little one isn't spayed yet. Both are super affectionate with people, but with each other, yikes!
It was way worse at first. I did slowly introduce them, switched blankets, etc. The thing is, they get along pretty well most of the time, both sleeping with me on the bed, sometimes within inches, and sharing play with toys, but when the older one tries to gently approach the little one to groom, the little one growls at her. Granted when the older one really wants to play and chase (esp in the evening at what I call The Witching Hour), she's too rough and frightens the little one, which starts the negative cycle all over. On the other hand the little one gets special wet food four times a day, which, even though the older cat won't eat it, makes her feel jealous about all the attention the other one is getting.The older one doesn't like treats of any kind so I can't really influence her that way - she only eats her special dry food. So far no one got hurt, and the little one really holds her ground with lots of attitude, but I want them to like each other all day long. She has places to hide that are safe and both can go to their own rooms and spaces when they want to.
The tabby strikes me as a true feral - she reminds me of a luxurious raccoon. Her play is geared to 'hunt and kill' - she loves to grab toys and take them to a corner once she's caught them. The little black and white is a true domestic and just wants to play for fun. So their play styles are opposite!
I know they are young, so do I have hope they will learn to be together in harmony? I adore them both so I want it to work. We play with them a lot, with plenty of exercise.
Hints, anyone?
Cola
Mishu
We adopted a rescue tabby kitten (born in captivity, not on the street) who is now 7 months old, then around a month later acquired a three month old black and white kitten as a companion for her. Both are girls, and the little one isn't spayed yet. Both are super affectionate with people, but with each other, yikes!
It was way worse at first. I did slowly introduce them, switched blankets, etc. The thing is, they get along pretty well most of the time, both sleeping with me on the bed, sometimes within inches, and sharing play with toys, but when the older one tries to gently approach the little one to groom, the little one growls at her. Granted when the older one really wants to play and chase (esp in the evening at what I call The Witching Hour), she's too rough and frightens the little one, which starts the negative cycle all over. On the other hand the little one gets special wet food four times a day, which, even though the older cat won't eat it, makes her feel jealous about all the attention the other one is getting.The older one doesn't like treats of any kind so I can't really influence her that way - she only eats her special dry food. So far no one got hurt, and the little one really holds her ground with lots of attitude, but I want them to like each other all day long. She has places to hide that are safe and both can go to their own rooms and spaces when they want to.
The tabby strikes me as a true feral - she reminds me of a luxurious raccoon. Her play is geared to 'hunt and kill' - she loves to grab toys and take them to a corner once she's caught them. The little black and white is a true domestic and just wants to play for fun. So their play styles are opposite!
I know they are young, so do I have hope they will learn to be together in harmony? I adore them both so I want it to work. We play with them a lot, with plenty of exercise.
Hints, anyone?
Cola
Mishu