Hello everyone, first time posting here cause I don’t know what to do anymore.
we have two cats, 3 and 1 years old. We both got them at eight weeks old. When we brought the new kitten to the house, we were very careful introducing them. We did separate rooms, scent swapping and the whole nine yards. It worked brilliantly, they loved each other at once and became inseparable. The older cat took on the role as big brother very seriously, grooming and playing and eating and sleeping together. This went well for many months.
The last couple of months however, the older cat has become jealous. He will growl and swat at the younger one whenever he wants my attention. Especially in the morning. As soon as I open my bedroom door (they don’t sleep with me at night), both run to the door and the older one will growl and chase the younger one away. He doesn’t hurt him, but it The same at night time, when I have them in my bedroo for a cuddle before I go asleep. When I go to the bathroom to put on make up or to do some laundry, the same happens.
At day time they get along, they can walk past each other , eat in close proximity to each other and play chase and wrestle together. Not very often, but a couple of short times a day. They groom each other still, but more seldom. They use the same litter box without problem.(they have two but only use one)
Both cats seem unhappy with this jealousy issue though, the younger one is very cautious in coming near to me when I pet the older one, and the older cat seems kinda depressed too.
I so wish for my cats to get along. My hubby says I overreact, and that everything is fine as long as they can be in the same room and walk past each other 90% of the time. But I feel like this is getting worse, and not better. I try to give them separate attention, but usually the other one comes running when I do, or scratches at the door to be let in.
I tried Feliway in the hallway to avoid those morning problems, didn’t help at all.
I didn’t even know cats could get jealous , so any advice is appreciated .
I forgot to mention that they are both males, both neutered at 16 weeks.
we have two cats, 3 and 1 years old. We both got them at eight weeks old. When we brought the new kitten to the house, we were very careful introducing them. We did separate rooms, scent swapping and the whole nine yards. It worked brilliantly, they loved each other at once and became inseparable. The older cat took on the role as big brother very seriously, grooming and playing and eating and sleeping together. This went well for many months.
The last couple of months however, the older cat has become jealous. He will growl and swat at the younger one whenever he wants my attention. Especially in the morning. As soon as I open my bedroom door (they don’t sleep with me at night), both run to the door and the older one will growl and chase the younger one away. He doesn’t hurt him, but it The same at night time, when I have them in my bedroo for a cuddle before I go asleep. When I go to the bathroom to put on make up or to do some laundry, the same happens.
At day time they get along, they can walk past each other , eat in close proximity to each other and play chase and wrestle together. Not very often, but a couple of short times a day. They groom each other still, but more seldom. They use the same litter box without problem.(they have two but only use one)
Both cats seem unhappy with this jealousy issue though, the younger one is very cautious in coming near to me when I pet the older one, and the older cat seems kinda depressed too.
I so wish for my cats to get along. My hubby says I overreact, and that everything is fine as long as they can be in the same room and walk past each other 90% of the time. But I feel like this is getting worse, and not better. I try to give them separate attention, but usually the other one comes running when I do, or scratches at the door to be let in.
I tried Feliway in the hallway to avoid those morning problems, didn’t help at all.
I didn’t even know cats could get jealous , so any advice is appreciated .
I forgot to mention that they are both males, both neutered at 16 weeks.