Some of you may have seen my threads about Poppy (10 months) and Milo (4 months).
I've done some digging and worked out that she hasn't really played since Milo arrived; she doesn't make eye contact at close quarters with me; she goes under the bed and drawers more; she doesn't tend to "play" as such with him, they just have wrestles. She sometimes tries to groom him but he bats her off. Trouble is, he likes to snuggle on me and I see her eyeing him with distaste. She will just stare at me and not interact. I've shut her and I out on the landing and played with the only toy she likes (mousey) every evening but she's constantly listening for him; she doesn't eat as much wet food - I think he pushed her out of the way a lot when he arrived. She was on her own for nearly 6 months before he arrived and I was at work during the day - ironically I got him for company for her but it may be backfiring?
So, what to do? Is she jealous? I hope she knows I love them both but the only time she approaches for affection is in the middle of the night when I'm allowed to pet her loads until she's had enough.
I've done some digging and worked out that she hasn't really played since Milo arrived; she doesn't make eye contact at close quarters with me; she goes under the bed and drawers more; she doesn't tend to "play" as such with him, they just have wrestles. She sometimes tries to groom him but he bats her off. Trouble is, he likes to snuggle on me and I see her eyeing him with distaste. She will just stare at me and not interact. I've shut her and I out on the landing and played with the only toy she likes (mousey) every evening but she's constantly listening for him; she doesn't eat as much wet food - I think he pushed her out of the way a lot when he arrived. She was on her own for nearly 6 months before he arrived and I was at work during the day - ironically I got him for company for her but it may be backfiring?
So, what to do? Is she jealous? I hope she knows I love them both but the only time she approaches for affection is in the middle of the night when I'm allowed to pet her loads until she's had enough.