I have been wanting to post something about boyfriends' cousin for a long time now because the problems we have been having with him have been minor. But today, WOW.. I just have to rant about him. Let me start from the very beginning..
A few months after I moved into Mikes (BF) house, his aunt and 2 cousins moved in with us, because they got evicted from their apartment. Since then, he has been in and out of jail, and in between his jail times he had been kicked out of our house time and time again for various things.. Like getting drunk and peeing on Mikes dads computer, bringing under age girls into our house and drinkinbg with them, stuff like that.
Well, this summer, his cousin got evicted from the place where he was living, and even though Mikes parents didn't want him living here, they couldn't let him live on the street cuz he's family. He was told he could stay here UNTIL he found somewhere else to live. This was in July. Since he has moved here, he hasn't even started looking for a place to live.. Everyones patience with him is wearing thin. He works, and he NEVER pays Mikes mom rent, even though he was told he has to pay her. He keeps me up at night, and wakes me up every morning because he is inconsiderate and he doesnt even try to be quiet. He was told from theb get-go that his drinking and drug abuse would NOT be tolerated in the house, because of the above-mentioned peeing on the computer, and he takes anti-depressant pills to get high and he falls asleep with cigarettes, were afraid the house is going to burn down. He is always purposely getting on my nerves.. I am easily agitated and if someone is messing with me and I ask them to stop, but they keep doing it, I start to flip. I had a brain injury and since then, I have a hard time controlling my emotions, and people don't understand how easily I can snap. He is hanging by a thread as of right now.
Today, I went with Mike to my work to help his mom put away the grocery order. When I left, both cats were sleeping. When I got home, I yelled out for them to eat. Monster NEVER misses a meal.. Well, he was gone. Mikes cousin has been told TIME and TIME again that he CANNOT leave any doors open and if he goes out the door he has to make sure he didn't let a cat out. Well I finally found him in between the two fences in the backyard, and I swear I have never seen Monster act the way he did. He was acting feral! He sliced open Mikes finger, and I JUST trimmed the cats claws yesterday. I can clip them very short, because I know what I am doing.
This is the last straw when it comes to this kid.. Seriously, Mikes parents can't stand him, I'm starting to hate him, he's gettin on Mikes last nerve, he doesn't pay rent. And everytime me or Mike says something to his parents about him they say things like "Well, we didn't want him here, you guys did". SO not true. I knew these problems would occur, they always do. I even mentioned this to them before they told him he could stay here, trying to save them the aggrivation. UGH..
Maybe this was pointless.. But I needed to vent, this dude is just so careless and he knows how much my cats mean to me.. Yet he still isn't careful when opening doors!
A few months after I moved into Mikes (BF) house, his aunt and 2 cousins moved in with us, because they got evicted from their apartment. Since then, he has been in and out of jail, and in between his jail times he had been kicked out of our house time and time again for various things.. Like getting drunk and peeing on Mikes dads computer, bringing under age girls into our house and drinkinbg with them, stuff like that.
Well, this summer, his cousin got evicted from the place where he was living, and even though Mikes parents didn't want him living here, they couldn't let him live on the street cuz he's family. He was told he could stay here UNTIL he found somewhere else to live. This was in July. Since he has moved here, he hasn't even started looking for a place to live.. Everyones patience with him is wearing thin. He works, and he NEVER pays Mikes mom rent, even though he was told he has to pay her. He keeps me up at night, and wakes me up every morning because he is inconsiderate and he doesnt even try to be quiet. He was told from theb get-go that his drinking and drug abuse would NOT be tolerated in the house, because of the above-mentioned peeing on the computer, and he takes anti-depressant pills to get high and he falls asleep with cigarettes, were afraid the house is going to burn down. He is always purposely getting on my nerves.. I am easily agitated and if someone is messing with me and I ask them to stop, but they keep doing it, I start to flip. I had a brain injury and since then, I have a hard time controlling my emotions, and people don't understand how easily I can snap. He is hanging by a thread as of right now.
Today, I went with Mike to my work to help his mom put away the grocery order. When I left, both cats were sleeping. When I got home, I yelled out for them to eat. Monster NEVER misses a meal.. Well, he was gone. Mikes cousin has been told TIME and TIME again that he CANNOT leave any doors open and if he goes out the door he has to make sure he didn't let a cat out. Well I finally found him in between the two fences in the backyard, and I swear I have never seen Monster act the way he did. He was acting feral! He sliced open Mikes finger, and I JUST trimmed the cats claws yesterday. I can clip them very short, because I know what I am doing.
This is the last straw when it comes to this kid.. Seriously, Mikes parents can't stand him, I'm starting to hate him, he's gettin on Mikes last nerve, he doesn't pay rent. And everytime me or Mike says something to his parents about him they say things like "Well, we didn't want him here, you guys did". SO not true. I knew these problems would occur, they always do. I even mentioned this to them before they told him he could stay here, trying to save them the aggrivation. UGH..
Maybe this was pointless.. But I needed to vent, this dude is just so careless and he knows how much my cats mean to me.. Yet he still isn't careful when opening doors!