Nikki, I'm sorry to hear that you're headed for divorce court, but in the end, it's probably for the best. If your husband is mentally & verbally abusive now, it'll only get worse. My ex was that way, and so was my dad towards my mom. He put her through 13 years of hell, till she finally found the strength to leave him. Abusers generally don't get any "better" - unless they seek help. And even then, it takes years of therapy - especially if you're dealing with a narcissistic abuser. You deserve so much better.
Things may look bleak now, but I promise you they'll get better, and in time, you'll be happy that you got divorced from him.
Hang in there, kiddo!
Things may look bleak now, but I promise you they'll get better, and in time, you'll be happy that you got divorced from him.
Hang in there, kiddo!