Yes, it has been 3 weeks now, since I said good-by to my love.... and it is Father's day also...
Not a good day.. started out ok.. but went downhill pretty fast, after I went to the cemetery...
The last 10 days have been rough for me.
I donated Artie's stairs to NVet's Secretary, because she has an elderly cat and an elderly dog...So, I had to go back to Angell. It was emotional.. very emotional.. I also found the last of the food; so I donated that also..
Went in to see the kitties, at the MSPCA adoption area... drawn to a grey and white kitten.. but he was isolated.. lots of Artie's qualities..
I made a decision, earlier in the week, to go back to volunteering with the Rescue.. it is now more of a rescue than a Humane Society. I need kitties in my life... Still no word on when they will be starting the re-pointing of the building.. dam.. my rent increase notice is almost late... dam...
I went in Thursday night to re-orient myself to the shelter, at PetSmart.. They had 5 cats... one kitten... strange, that this was another grey and white kitten.. with Artie's personality...
So much reminded me of him.. but what an imp... he was talking to me.. putting his paw out to grab attention.. then when he came out, he was a wild man...
Only thing: he is having poop issues... OMG.... He is only 10 months old.. and has diarrhea, with the worst smelling poop I have ever smelt..
His stool specimen came back negative, but I think it is a false negative.. I feel he needs to be wormed with something strong...
Anyway...
Saturday, I spent over 2 hours with the kitties.. Wild Man, aka Aries, was such a character...
Of course I let him out, repeatedly.. we played, We talked back and forth, he trilled, he gave me the 'love' blink, he climbed on top of everything.. At one point, I was reading his chart, he jumped on my lap, batting the chart... another time, I was sitting down, with my phone-- he wanted attention, so he laid down on my lap, and swatted at my phone... another time I was just sitting there.. he jumped on my lap, started purring and kneading...
Aries is wild.. a ton of Artie's characteristics.. I can see this is how Artie was when he was a kitten... There is so much interest in this kitten.. so many people have filled out applications for him. We will not adopt out, until we are certain about his bowels...... and I have absolutely NO DESIRE to have another cat with bowel issues... no matter how much I fall in love with them..
And it is too soon for me... I still have Artie's fur clinging to my couch, not wanting to vacuum it up... I keep seeing a piece of fur, pick it up, my stomach sinks, and I say: "Artie Fur"....and save it in an empty medicine bottle.
Aries will be the type of kitten who would climb up my drapes, knock over my 46 inch flat screen TV, tip over and brake lamps..and everything not secured...
anyway..
Today is a tuff day for me.. I was tearing up a bit, earlier... I miss both my dad and Artie...
I still need to wash the inside windows... I still have Artie smoosh on them... I cannot bring myself to remove all traces of him, from my life... I miss him....
Still second guessing myself, at times: Should I have done one more enema, increased his miralax, his lactulose, gone back to the Fancy Feast????? should I have tried home enemas???
Did I make the end come too soon for him??? Should I have waited another week?? or a few more days??? did I make him suffer???
He was so happy when he ate his favorite food, that last day: FF Salmon... I have pictures.. He did not look sick, then, but I keep forgetting how much he was hiding.. how much he could not have a bowel movement.. how miserable he was...
I just miss him.. I miss him on my lap, cuddling with me, talking to me... loving me..,,, just his presence...His greeting me at the door, when I come home... even his 'happy' times on my lap...
I kind of wish he was sicker that last day... he was hiding.. but he did gobble down his can of salmon... and did not look sick... but he kept hiding from me... and did not want to be held, or even go outside on the balcony.. he was withdrawing...
I honestly wish I could clone him... miss Artie so much...
I was not feeling this guilt when my dad died.. I had the grief, I had the bouts of terribly missing him.. the tears, the crying jags... but not what I feel now... or did I forget that part of it... time has a way of making us forget the bad; and remembering the good...I had no regrets about how my dad and I got along, no regrets about his medical care, no regrets about how we treated each other, or what I did for him... no regrets..
When my mom died, things were really different. She had always been sick, with one major medical disease and then another....I tried to get additional care for her, but she refused... I was a lot younger.. but a lot more emotional issues.. and my dad was so upset... that is when I had to take charge of things...and lots of regrets ........
With Artie... I feel so horrible...and he is not even human... He is my baby... my love.. my guy....
Sorry this is so morbid, and dramatic..
Today is a bad day for me...
Thank you for listening to me...
Anyway, I have to end this on some kind of positive note:
Things happen for a reason.. None of us, ever know what that reason is.. it may take years to discover..
Artie was sent to me for a reason... at a time in my life, when we both needed each other.. Artie taught me to love, openly, feely... and fully... He taught me what love was-- between an animal and a human... unconditional love...
Now that he is not physically here; there means to be a change in my life.. What that change will be, I do not know... I pray it will be a change for the good... but... loving Artie was an excellent learning experience for me... He was with me for a ton of badness... and was my one constant in my life... what happens now??? I do not know... but I have to have faith that something good, just HAS to come out of this... and out of Artie's love....
Not a good day.. started out ok.. but went downhill pretty fast, after I went to the cemetery...
The last 10 days have been rough for me.
I donated Artie's stairs to NVet's Secretary, because she has an elderly cat and an elderly dog...So, I had to go back to Angell. It was emotional.. very emotional.. I also found the last of the food; so I donated that also..
Went in to see the kitties, at the MSPCA adoption area... drawn to a grey and white kitten.. but he was isolated.. lots of Artie's qualities..
I made a decision, earlier in the week, to go back to volunteering with the Rescue.. it is now more of a rescue than a Humane Society. I need kitties in my life... Still no word on when they will be starting the re-pointing of the building.. dam.. my rent increase notice is almost late... dam...
I went in Thursday night to re-orient myself to the shelter, at PetSmart.. They had 5 cats... one kitten... strange, that this was another grey and white kitten.. with Artie's personality...
So much reminded me of him.. but what an imp... he was talking to me.. putting his paw out to grab attention.. then when he came out, he was a wild man...
Only thing: he is having poop issues... OMG.... He is only 10 months old.. and has diarrhea, with the worst smelling poop I have ever smelt..
His stool specimen came back negative, but I think it is a false negative.. I feel he needs to be wormed with something strong...
Anyway...
Saturday, I spent over 2 hours with the kitties.. Wild Man, aka Aries, was such a character...
Of course I let him out, repeatedly.. we played, We talked back and forth, he trilled, he gave me the 'love' blink, he climbed on top of everything.. At one point, I was reading his chart, he jumped on my lap, batting the chart... another time, I was sitting down, with my phone-- he wanted attention, so he laid down on my lap, and swatted at my phone... another time I was just sitting there.. he jumped on my lap, started purring and kneading...
Aries is wild.. a ton of Artie's characteristics.. I can see this is how Artie was when he was a kitten... There is so much interest in this kitten.. so many people have filled out applications for him. We will not adopt out, until we are certain about his bowels...... and I have absolutely NO DESIRE to have another cat with bowel issues... no matter how much I fall in love with them..
And it is too soon for me... I still have Artie's fur clinging to my couch, not wanting to vacuum it up... I keep seeing a piece of fur, pick it up, my stomach sinks, and I say: "Artie Fur"....and save it in an empty medicine bottle.
Aries will be the type of kitten who would climb up my drapes, knock over my 46 inch flat screen TV, tip over and brake lamps..and everything not secured...
anyway..
Today is a tuff day for me.. I was tearing up a bit, earlier... I miss both my dad and Artie...
I still need to wash the inside windows... I still have Artie smoosh on them... I cannot bring myself to remove all traces of him, from my life... I miss him....
Still second guessing myself, at times: Should I have done one more enema, increased his miralax, his lactulose, gone back to the Fancy Feast????? should I have tried home enemas???
Did I make the end come too soon for him??? Should I have waited another week?? or a few more days??? did I make him suffer???
He was so happy when he ate his favorite food, that last day: FF Salmon... I have pictures.. He did not look sick, then, but I keep forgetting how much he was hiding.. how much he could not have a bowel movement.. how miserable he was...
I just miss him.. I miss him on my lap, cuddling with me, talking to me... loving me..,,, just his presence...His greeting me at the door, when I come home... even his 'happy' times on my lap...
I kind of wish he was sicker that last day... he was hiding.. but he did gobble down his can of salmon... and did not look sick... but he kept hiding from me... and did not want to be held, or even go outside on the balcony.. he was withdrawing...
I honestly wish I could clone him... miss Artie so much...
I was not feeling this guilt when my dad died.. I had the grief, I had the bouts of terribly missing him.. the tears, the crying jags... but not what I feel now... or did I forget that part of it... time has a way of making us forget the bad; and remembering the good...I had no regrets about how my dad and I got along, no regrets about his medical care, no regrets about how we treated each other, or what I did for him... no regrets..
When my mom died, things were really different. She had always been sick, with one major medical disease and then another....I tried to get additional care for her, but she refused... I was a lot younger.. but a lot more emotional issues.. and my dad was so upset... that is when I had to take charge of things...and lots of regrets ........
With Artie... I feel so horrible...and he is not even human... He is my baby... my love.. my guy....
Sorry this is so morbid, and dramatic..
Today is a bad day for me...
Thank you for listening to me...
Anyway, I have to end this on some kind of positive note:
Things happen for a reason.. None of us, ever know what that reason is.. it may take years to discover..
Artie was sent to me for a reason... at a time in my life, when we both needed each other.. Artie taught me to love, openly, feely... and fully... He taught me what love was-- between an animal and a human... unconditional love...
Now that he is not physically here; there means to be a change in my life.. What that change will be, I do not know... I pray it will be a change for the good... but... loving Artie was an excellent learning experience for me... He was with me for a ton of badness... and was my one constant in my life... what happens now??? I do not know... but I have to have faith that something good, just HAS to come out of this... and out of Artie's love....
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