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Hello everyone,
I hope this is the correct place for me to post this.
I am buying a kitten from a breeder that seems to be ethical, she has a good reputation from what I’ve seen and social media with good reviews and lots of pictures throughout the years.
Now, my issue is that I’m supposed to pick up my kitten not this following weekend, but the next one. And the breeder still has not confirmed a date. She just told me it “most likely” will be that weekend, but I don’t know a specific time or anything similar.
I asked her at least five times already in the past few weeks, and I’m starting to feel upset. Today (Wednesday) she said she would tell me by the end of the day for sure, and once again here I am still waiting with no confirmed date. At this point it will be only 8/9 days before I have to pick up the kitten and I really need to do some planning as the breeder is not that close to me.
I explained I need to make a reservation for that weekend as well and that’s also why I really need to know. But still, it seems it doesn’t matter to her that I have been asking many times and would really have to know.
I feel my request is being ignored and I’m losing my patience. At this point I just want to pick up the kitten and get it over with, it feels I have been waiting forever.
Am I overreacting? How do you think I should act in this case?
My plan would be to text her once again tomorrow morning, and if she doesn’t tell me I would ask my husband to call her. Not in a threatening way, but at this point maybe he would have more success than me.
Any advice welcome! Thank you!
I hope this is the correct place for me to post this.
I am buying a kitten from a breeder that seems to be ethical, she has a good reputation from what I’ve seen and social media with good reviews and lots of pictures throughout the years.
Now, my issue is that I’m supposed to pick up my kitten not this following weekend, but the next one. And the breeder still has not confirmed a date. She just told me it “most likely” will be that weekend, but I don’t know a specific time or anything similar.
I asked her at least five times already in the past few weeks, and I’m starting to feel upset. Today (Wednesday) she said she would tell me by the end of the day for sure, and once again here I am still waiting with no confirmed date. At this point it will be only 8/9 days before I have to pick up the kitten and I really need to do some planning as the breeder is not that close to me.
I explained I need to make a reservation for that weekend as well and that’s also why I really need to know. But still, it seems it doesn’t matter to her that I have been asking many times and would really have to know.
I feel my request is being ignored and I’m losing my patience. At this point I just want to pick up the kitten and get it over with, it feels I have been waiting forever.
Am I overreacting? How do you think I should act in this case?
My plan would be to text her once again tomorrow morning, and if she doesn’t tell me I would ask my husband to call her. Not in a threatening way, but at this point maybe he would have more success than me.
Any advice welcome! Thank you!