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My cat Snuffy is my first pet and to be honest I didn’t know it was possible to bond so much with a cat. It’s like we are a pair in this house and do everything together in a way. He’s loved me unconditionally for years even when I’ve accidentally stepped on his tail or made other blunders as a new cat owner. I love him so much and would do anything for him.
But, currently Snuffy is having some pretty serious health issues and I’m even surprised myself at the amount of fear, pain, concern, worry and desperation I’ve felt over the last few days. My heart just breaks at the thought of losing him, which doesn’t seem like that will be the case in this scenario, but even just knowing all the discomfort and pain he is in, the fear he must be feeling staying at the vet, the discomfort and misery it’s going to be for him if I have to give him meds every day long term (which it looks like a good possibility and he hates being given meds). That too breaks my heart. Not knowing for sure what is going on is also absolute torture as the vet hasn’t figured it out yet.
The only people I can think of that I would likely have this serious of a reaction to are both my parents. Seriously. Like I couldn’t even talk to my mom today about what’s been going on without crying over and over and I don’t usually cry about things. Is this normal? Is this wrong to care so much for your cat? To get this worked up about them? I got so many messages growing up that a pet is just a pet, they aren’t something to fret over. Especially a cat compared to a dog (again outside messages I got a lot as a kid). But he isn’t just a pet, he’s Snuffy. He has emotions, gets scared, wants to play, acts silly and loves me like I love him.
Is it normal to be this much of a wreck for your pet cat? Or is something wrong with me?
But, currently Snuffy is having some pretty serious health issues and I’m even surprised myself at the amount of fear, pain, concern, worry and desperation I’ve felt over the last few days. My heart just breaks at the thought of losing him, which doesn’t seem like that will be the case in this scenario, but even just knowing all the discomfort and pain he is in, the fear he must be feeling staying at the vet, the discomfort and misery it’s going to be for him if I have to give him meds every day long term (which it looks like a good possibility and he hates being given meds). That too breaks my heart. Not knowing for sure what is going on is also absolute torture as the vet hasn’t figured it out yet.
The only people I can think of that I would likely have this serious of a reaction to are both my parents. Seriously. Like I couldn’t even talk to my mom today about what’s been going on without crying over and over and I don’t usually cry about things. Is this normal? Is this wrong to care so much for your cat? To get this worked up about them? I got so many messages growing up that a pet is just a pet, they aren’t something to fret over. Especially a cat compared to a dog (again outside messages I got a lot as a kid). But he isn’t just a pet, he’s Snuffy. He has emotions, gets scared, wants to play, acts silly and loves me like I love him.
Is it normal to be this much of a wreck for your pet cat? Or is something wrong with me?