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Good morning!
Let's start with some background:
Coconut is a 5 month old neutered (used to be) only child. He was separated from his mother a little too early as when I rescued him he was only 6 weeks old. He's had issues chewing and biting a little hard in the past and that is only accentuated now because he is teething. He is also pretty big I think for only being 5 months (he's about 5 lbs)
The issue:
I just brought home a new little kitty Hazelnut (who is 2 months old 1.5 lbs and spayed) to keep him company while I'm away during the day.
The introductions have gone very well and they warmed up to each other very quickly. The issue that has arisen is that when they start to play with small batting (Coco usually bats very slow and gentle to start, then Hazel retaliates with a very fast smack that riles him up until he's chasing her around the room) When he catches up to her and the start to wrestle that's when she screams and is very scared of him.
For a while after that she hisses whenever she smells or sees him and I am forced to keep him separated out of my room and in the living room where his litter and food is. He does not like this at all and cries at the door until I let him back in and things are good for a while until the cycle happens again.
He is normally very timid around her until she starts something with him by either running up to him or batting at him when he comes to sniff her.
All of this is a huge improvement from when we had first brought her home and he hissed and growled every time he smelled her under the door, so I know at least he is taking not being the only baby anymore in stride.
What I would like to know:
How can I deal with what seems to be Coco using too much force while playing, and how can I keep Hazle calm while he is coming up to explore her scent?
Let's start with some background:
Coconut is a 5 month old neutered (used to be) only child. He was separated from his mother a little too early as when I rescued him he was only 6 weeks old. He's had issues chewing and biting a little hard in the past and that is only accentuated now because he is teething. He is also pretty big I think for only being 5 months (he's about 5 lbs)
The issue:
I just brought home a new little kitty Hazelnut (who is 2 months old 1.5 lbs and spayed) to keep him company while I'm away during the day.
The introductions have gone very well and they warmed up to each other very quickly. The issue that has arisen is that when they start to play with small batting (Coco usually bats very slow and gentle to start, then Hazel retaliates with a very fast smack that riles him up until he's chasing her around the room) When he catches up to her and the start to wrestle that's when she screams and is very scared of him.
For a while after that she hisses whenever she smells or sees him and I am forced to keep him separated out of my room and in the living room where his litter and food is. He does not like this at all and cries at the door until I let him back in and things are good for a while until the cycle happens again.
He is normally very timid around her until she starts something with him by either running up to him or batting at him when he comes to sniff her.
All of this is a huge improvement from when we had first brought her home and he hissed and growled every time he smelled her under the door, so I know at least he is taking not being the only baby anymore in stride.
What I would like to know:
How can I deal with what seems to be Coco using too much force while playing, and how can I keep Hazle calm while he is coming up to explore her scent?