Aw, well sorry I couldn't help... do you use Feliway Comfort Zone Diffusers? Have you tried Bach Rescue Remedies? Have you tried the vanilla trick?Originally Posted by J. Otte
Thanks so much for the information, but unfortunatley, I already read that and had followed basically the same procedure. Pepper has been in the guest room (there is a big enough gap underneath the door for the cats to put their paws under, which they have). Anyway, I let them see each other several times, but not close up...
The introduction method on this board is fine, but it doesn't say anything about the new comer being the aggressor. Boss is fine with her... PEPPER is the agreessor and mean with him. Every time I open the guest room door, she is trying to attack him even if he isn't there. If she smells him under the door, she attacks the crack under the door. When I did let them see each other but closer, like I said, she attacked him, bloodied his ear, he was shocked and hid, so you can see, she is obviously the aggressor, he is not, even though he really is the "top cat" in the house...