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I lost my boy, my angel. He was 17 1/2 and he had a disc herniation. I thought he was too old for surgery and I wasn't told about crate confinement until he had gotten really bad and it was probably no longer an option. He just got worse and worse until he was in pain, not responsive to meds, barely able to walk and not wanting to eat. He was miserable and I put him to sleep. He was my best friend.
Yesterday I took my other cat to the vet. She is 14 and I've been told as of last spring that her IBD has most likely turned into lymphoma and she has about 18 months (that was 10 months ago). There was a sign there that showed the success of IVDD surgical treatment and I just sat there staring at this chart showing on what I should have done. Yes, they were probably for dogs, probably for pets that were younger, but I just sat there knowing I should have done the surgery and tried to save my boy. I thought it was a selfish thing to do to a 17-year-old cat (the oldest they had ever done was much younger), that I'd be doing it for myself and not for him. But I see now that that was probably his best chance - and I didn't give it to him. He just got worse. Maybe I could have had him for a couple of more years. I just could think straight when I was in middle of it all. I failed him. It would be nice to believe in Rainbow Bridge and all of that and I want to believe I'll see him again but I just know he's gone and I took his chance to live a longer life away.
Yesterday I took my other cat to the vet. She is 14 and I've been told as of last spring that her IBD has most likely turned into lymphoma and she has about 18 months (that was 10 months ago). There was a sign there that showed the success of IVDD surgical treatment and I just sat there staring at this chart showing on what I should have done. Yes, they were probably for dogs, probably for pets that were younger, but I just sat there knowing I should have done the surgery and tried to save my boy. I thought it was a selfish thing to do to a 17-year-old cat (the oldest they had ever done was much younger), that I'd be doing it for myself and not for him. But I see now that that was probably his best chance - and I didn't give it to him. He just got worse. Maybe I could have had him for a couple of more years. I just could think straight when I was in middle of it all. I failed him. It would be nice to believe in Rainbow Bridge and all of that and I want to believe I'll see him again but I just know he's gone and I took his chance to live a longer life away.