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I just adopted my first cat yesterday, she’s one year old and honestly the perfect adoptee. After some shyness, she’s already seeking me out for affection and even lets me rub her belly, she’s using the litter box, everything is great. It’s me that’s the problem, I’m not enjoying the experience of having a cat. I care about her and want what’s best for her, but I don’t feel affection or love towards her. I know it’s only been a couple of days and the best advice is to wait it out, but if I’m not a cat person and just don’t like having cats, shouldn’t I give her back sooner rather than later? I’m borederline miserable with anxiety about caring for her and having a stranger here that I don’t care about and possible never will. Advice?