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Hi everyone,
I adopted a cat from a local rescue organization last Saturday (it's been a week and a day since) - her name is Jane and she's a pretty little 1 year and three months old white kitty with brown markings. Adopting a cat is something I've been thinking about quite a bit for the past few months, as I started graduate school for library science this fall. I'm moving into my own place in a little under two weeks, and I thought that a good way to help combat potential loneliness would be to adopt a cat.
So far she has been a sweetheart - she was very scared when I picked her up from the shelter, but she's adjusted to my bedroom well (one of my roommates is allergic, so I'm keeping her in my room for now, which I feel a little bad about). She loves to be petted, and she's been very playful - she zooms around the room quite a bit at night. She actually has more energy than I expected (I know, she's young and she's only been with me a week).
I knew that adopting a cat is a big responsibility and I was mentally prepared for that - but I'm not sure I was prepared for the anxiety I would feel after adopting her. Is this a normal experience? I had cats when I was a kid and I've always had dogs, but this is the first time I've ever owned a pet by myself. I'm so embarrassed about this, but on Sunday, Tuesday, and Friday nights I had mini anxiety/panic attacks thinking about it and couldn't stop crying - I kept thinking, "I should have gotten an older cat, maybe this was a mistake, maybe I shouldn't have gotten a cat and I don't have enough time to keep up with her." She's very energetic.
I've really enjoyed playing with her and cuddling, but I'm starting to feel cooped up with her in my bedroom and her zooming around at night has really cut down on my ability to sleep, so maybe that's part of it? Even though I knew adopting a younger cat would be a really large commitment (potentially 15-20 years), I don't think it hit me how real that is until I adopted her.
I don't know, I'm feeling unreasonably stressed about it. I'm just worried that I'll come to regret adopting her, which I'd feel terrible about because she's been pretty sweet. But I'm worried that I might not have enough time to devote to her since she's got a lot of energy and is an only cat - and as a grad student my schedule, while flexible, means I don't have a ton of time to devote to behavioral issues/training. I hope it wasn't irresponsible of me to adopt? I wanted a companion in her.
I haven't been diagnosed with generalized anxiety disorder or seen a therapist or anything but I've been pretty stressed this semester (broke up with my boyfriend of 2.5 years, started grad school, moved to a new city, etc.) and I didn't expect that I would react this way at all to adopting a cat.
She has also started "crying" and yowling at night - she started on Friday night and then did it again last night/early this morning. I think that she's doing it for attention and wants to play, since she has food and water and a clean litter box, and I just took her to the vet yesterday and she's just fine. I have no idea why she's doing it, but it's a really creepy sound and I don't want to teach her that meowing that way will get her attention. I'm not sure what to do. I'm also barely sleeping, and her yowling is driving me crazy.
Also, last night I was petting her and accidentally draped part of my blanket over her, and she freaked out and bit me (didn't draw blood). Then this morning, shortly after crying, she jumped up on my bed and it was close enough to when I was going to wake up that I started petting her. She did the same thing, and scratched and tried to bite me - I wasn't petting her weirdly or holding her or anything, so I have no idea where this is coming from. It's making me worry that she's starting to bite for no apparent reason - please help! I'm starting to second guess adopting her. I don't know what to do and I feel terrible. I'm worried that I might be the wrong fit for her and that she'd need a house with another cat or someone else who has time to devote to these kinds of behavioral/training issues (I understand that she's still adjusting to living with me).
I asked my mom about it and she said just be patient, but I'm worried that I'm the wrong fit for Jane and that she'd be better off in a house with more energy.
Can anyone give me any advice or insight?
I adopted a cat from a local rescue organization last Saturday (it's been a week and a day since) - her name is Jane and she's a pretty little 1 year and three months old white kitty with brown markings. Adopting a cat is something I've been thinking about quite a bit for the past few months, as I started graduate school for library science this fall. I'm moving into my own place in a little under two weeks, and I thought that a good way to help combat potential loneliness would be to adopt a cat.
So far she has been a sweetheart - she was very scared when I picked her up from the shelter, but she's adjusted to my bedroom well (one of my roommates is allergic, so I'm keeping her in my room for now, which I feel a little bad about). She loves to be petted, and she's been very playful - she zooms around the room quite a bit at night. She actually has more energy than I expected (I know, she's young and she's only been with me a week).
I knew that adopting a cat is a big responsibility and I was mentally prepared for that - but I'm not sure I was prepared for the anxiety I would feel after adopting her. Is this a normal experience? I had cats when I was a kid and I've always had dogs, but this is the first time I've ever owned a pet by myself. I'm so embarrassed about this, but on Sunday, Tuesday, and Friday nights I had mini anxiety/panic attacks thinking about it and couldn't stop crying - I kept thinking, "I should have gotten an older cat, maybe this was a mistake, maybe I shouldn't have gotten a cat and I don't have enough time to keep up with her." She's very energetic.
I've really enjoyed playing with her and cuddling, but I'm starting to feel cooped up with her in my bedroom and her zooming around at night has really cut down on my ability to sleep, so maybe that's part of it? Even though I knew adopting a younger cat would be a really large commitment (potentially 15-20 years), I don't think it hit me how real that is until I adopted her.
I don't know, I'm feeling unreasonably stressed about it. I'm just worried that I'll come to regret adopting her, which I'd feel terrible about because she's been pretty sweet. But I'm worried that I might not have enough time to devote to her since she's got a lot of energy and is an only cat - and as a grad student my schedule, while flexible, means I don't have a ton of time to devote to behavioral issues/training. I hope it wasn't irresponsible of me to adopt? I wanted a companion in her.
I haven't been diagnosed with generalized anxiety disorder or seen a therapist or anything but I've been pretty stressed this semester (broke up with my boyfriend of 2.5 years, started grad school, moved to a new city, etc.) and I didn't expect that I would react this way at all to adopting a cat.
She has also started "crying" and yowling at night - she started on Friday night and then did it again last night/early this morning. I think that she's doing it for attention and wants to play, since she has food and water and a clean litter box, and I just took her to the vet yesterday and she's just fine. I have no idea why she's doing it, but it's a really creepy sound and I don't want to teach her that meowing that way will get her attention. I'm not sure what to do. I'm also barely sleeping, and her yowling is driving me crazy.
Also, last night I was petting her and accidentally draped part of my blanket over her, and she freaked out and bit me (didn't draw blood). Then this morning, shortly after crying, she jumped up on my bed and it was close enough to when I was going to wake up that I started petting her. She did the same thing, and scratched and tried to bite me - I wasn't petting her weirdly or holding her or anything, so I have no idea where this is coming from. It's making me worry that she's starting to bite for no apparent reason - please help! I'm starting to second guess adopting her. I don't know what to do and I feel terrible. I'm worried that I might be the wrong fit for her and that she'd need a house with another cat or someone else who has time to devote to these kinds of behavioral/training issues (I understand that she's still adjusting to living with me).
I asked my mom about it and she said just be patient, but I'm worried that I'm the wrong fit for Jane and that she'd be better off in a house with more energy.
Can anyone give me any advice or insight?