Well heresa tricky question for you. Since my mate Mike comitted suicide and the funeral has been over a few days, I called by tonight to return some photos that I had borrowed of him. Just wanted to scan and have something a little more solid than a memory to look at. Anyway, I went for a few minutes, ended up being there half an hour and at one point, had them both laughing and smiling which I feel incredibly guilty about. It was good to see them smile though through instead of weep.
I would love to get them something for christmas, maybe a little something to let them know that even though it is not an easy time for them, nor will be, that I am thinking of them.
I have no idea what to get? I thought about some wine and dropit by xmas eve - just put it on the door step all wrapped up with a card and then quickly jump in the car and drive away so they dont see me.
I dont feel a card wishing merry xmas a good idea - so something just nice letting them know thoughts and prayers with them.
Its not an easy question I know. Mike's father is 70 and mum not far behind but we have developed a good friendship.
Any ideas please?
Kev
just wanting to give something to someone who lost so much
I would love to get them something for christmas, maybe a little something to let them know that even though it is not an easy time for them, nor will be, that I am thinking of them.
I have no idea what to get? I thought about some wine and dropit by xmas eve - just put it on the door step all wrapped up with a card and then quickly jump in the car and drive away so they dont see me.
I dont feel a card wishing merry xmas a good idea - so something just nice letting them know thoughts and prayers with them.
Its not an easy question I know. Mike's father is 70 and mum not far behind but we have developed a good friendship.
Any ideas please?
Kev
just wanting to give something to someone who lost so much