I met my partner through mutual friends, one of which I knew to be a girl that didn't get on with her male friends' girlfriends. I got on with her fine though. BEFORE I got together with my man.
About 6 months into our relationship she changed towards me and she would flirt outrageously with my boyfriend. Mutual friends would pass it off with 'that's just the way she is' (as if that makes it okay). I ignored it as I knew she was probably doing it to rile me. My relationship with her steadily deteriorated without either of us acknowledging this fact.
The final straw was when she alluded to a pact she made with my boyfriend years ago that if neither of them were married by the time they were 30..........well they both turned 30 this year. The day of MY birthday which was 2 days after hers, one of her friends sent my SO a picture of her wearing an engagement ring saying 'she's ready for you'. I completely lost it; I didn't blame my boyfriend as he does not encourage her behaviour at all but I was really upset. People then acted as if I was the one with the problem and sure don't you know she's only joking?!!!!!!!
I have to see this girl socially on a regular basis as we hang out with the same group of people. I'm keeping up a being nice as pie facade to her but it's killing me. I feel like having it out with her but she'd act like such a victim to everyone else and accuse me of being insecure.
Should I leave things or tell the cow where to go? I am NOT a jealous person and I completely trust my boyfriend; I just hate the way she behaves towards both men and women!! SHe makes me angry
About 6 months into our relationship she changed towards me and she would flirt outrageously with my boyfriend. Mutual friends would pass it off with 'that's just the way she is' (as if that makes it okay). I ignored it as I knew she was probably doing it to rile me. My relationship with her steadily deteriorated without either of us acknowledging this fact.
The final straw was when she alluded to a pact she made with my boyfriend years ago that if neither of them were married by the time they were 30..........well they both turned 30 this year. The day of MY birthday which was 2 days after hers, one of her friends sent my SO a picture of her wearing an engagement ring saying 'she's ready for you'. I completely lost it; I didn't blame my boyfriend as he does not encourage her behaviour at all but I was really upset. People then acted as if I was the one with the problem and sure don't you know she's only joking?!!!!!!!
I have to see this girl socially on a regular basis as we hang out with the same group of people. I'm keeping up a being nice as pie facade to her but it's killing me. I feel like having it out with her but she'd act like such a victim to everyone else and accuse me of being insecure.
Should I leave things or tell the cow where to go? I am NOT a jealous person and I completely trust my boyfriend; I just hate the way she behaves towards both men and women!! SHe makes me angry