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So, you might have seen my last post. It's me posting about Chloe (9) and Sasha (almost 5 months). We've had free-roaming kitties while we're in the house for a couple days and we're starting to get used to the sounds, but I feel like the attitudes are getting worse between the cats. Sasha is SUPER interested in Chloe. We think that if she would just completely lose interest and leave her the hell alone, the problem wouldn't be as bad. Unfortunately, getting screamed and hissed and growled at is no longer a deterrent, so Sasha just keeps pursuing and trying to get behind Chloe so she can get as close as possible. Chloe is starting to get really aggressive and mean. I was kind of hoping that increased exposure would start to show that Sasha isn't a threat, but no dice so far
When we first started free-roaming, there was a LOT of caterwauling and Chloe would just run away and hide. Sasha is, quite frankly, an idiot, so she chases and keeps bothering, but she would eventually leave Chloe alone + we would do our best to distract her with toys and just play within Chloe's eyesight.
The problem (?) now is that instead of just running away from each other, Chloe has started aggressively running towards and attacking Sasha. No real contact yet, but I'm worried that we're only a breath away from it escalating to that. And I am positive that this is not play. The ears are sideways or flat against the head, the teeth are bared, claws are out, and the tail snaps around like a whip. Chloe is angry. Typically, this manages to frighten Sasha off for a while, but she always comes back around and tries again.
In fact, Chloe has started to do this when we're holding Sasha even, which she has never done before. As soon as I set Sasha on the ground a minute ago (I was trying to show Chloe that she was coming out of her room, we try not to surprise her), Chloe rushed at her with the claws out as she was about to flop over only a blanket.
Guys, I really don't know what to do. Is this development normal Cat Politics, or should I be concerned that this seems worse than it was before we allowed free-roaming? I want to reiterate that I am NOT giving up, but I'm getting really tired and I'm running out of ideas to make this work.
So, you might have seen my last post. It's me posting about Chloe (9) and Sasha (almost 5 months). We've had free-roaming kitties while we're in the house for a couple days and we're starting to get used to the sounds, but I feel like the attitudes are getting worse between the cats. Sasha is SUPER interested in Chloe. We think that if she would just completely lose interest and leave her the hell alone, the problem wouldn't be as bad. Unfortunately, getting screamed and hissed and growled at is no longer a deterrent, so Sasha just keeps pursuing and trying to get behind Chloe so she can get as close as possible. Chloe is starting to get really aggressive and mean. I was kind of hoping that increased exposure would start to show that Sasha isn't a threat, but no dice so far
When we first started free-roaming, there was a LOT of caterwauling and Chloe would just run away and hide. Sasha is, quite frankly, an idiot, so she chases and keeps bothering, but she would eventually leave Chloe alone + we would do our best to distract her with toys and just play within Chloe's eyesight.
The problem (?) now is that instead of just running away from each other, Chloe has started aggressively running towards and attacking Sasha. No real contact yet, but I'm worried that we're only a breath away from it escalating to that. And I am positive that this is not play. The ears are sideways or flat against the head, the teeth are bared, claws are out, and the tail snaps around like a whip. Chloe is angry. Typically, this manages to frighten Sasha off for a while, but she always comes back around and tries again.
In fact, Chloe has started to do this when we're holding Sasha even, which she has never done before. As soon as I set Sasha on the ground a minute ago (I was trying to show Chloe that she was coming out of her room, we try not to surprise her), Chloe rushed at her with the claws out as she was about to flop over only a blanket.
Guys, I really don't know what to do. Is this development normal Cat Politics, or should I be concerned that this seems worse than it was before we allowed free-roaming? I want to reiterate that I am NOT giving up, but I'm getting really tired and I'm running out of ideas to make this work.