Let me start by saying, I LOVE ashes with all of my heart.
Ashes doesnt get along with Cheeto or Chiclet. At first I thought it was "play fighting" but its constant, especially since cheeto came to our home. I find her hiding everywhere, and I can tell as much as she tries, she's just not comfy as she can be here. We give her only the best of everything. Its gotten to a point where even my hubby doesnt like to be around her too much because she gets mad easily, and she just looks unhappy. She's a very healthy cat, has all her shots perfect weight. She just cant socialize too well
I've been thinking of giving her to a better home, but I love her too much.......... I dunno WHAT To do. I've tried the Comfort zone, extra attention. She has come around to me, she comes for petting every now and then, and she always sleeps at my feet. But other than that you never see her, and when you do she's hissing and growling at cheeto or chiclet. I feel terrible cuz it was all fine till cheeto came along...... I would give away cheeto, but thats also unfair! Cheeto is an exeptional cat. He is SO sweet, he gives US extra attention all the time, always purring and nudging. So much that my husband warmed up to him alot.
I don't know what step to take............I can sit here and be selfish and keep ashes, but I feel she's not happy here. I want her to go somewhere where she will get the same or more than she has here. Cat trees, cat toys, cat nip, treats free feeding, water fountain, LOVE.
I dunno what to do. Chiclet and Cheeto are best friends, they dont even groom Ashes anymore like they used to. CHiclet and cheeto love it when we bring kittens here, and ashes just hisses and gets P.O'd
Any advice will be gladly taken.
Ashes doesnt get along with Cheeto or Chiclet. At first I thought it was "play fighting" but its constant, especially since cheeto came to our home. I find her hiding everywhere, and I can tell as much as she tries, she's just not comfy as she can be here. We give her only the best of everything. Its gotten to a point where even my hubby doesnt like to be around her too much because she gets mad easily, and she just looks unhappy. She's a very healthy cat, has all her shots perfect weight. She just cant socialize too well
I don't know what step to take............I can sit here and be selfish and keep ashes, but I feel she's not happy here. I want her to go somewhere where she will get the same or more than she has here. Cat trees, cat toys, cat nip, treats free feeding, water fountain, LOVE.
Any advice will be gladly taken.