Ok, First of all, I am sorry if this gets long.... right now I don't really know what to do.... Let me start at the beginning:
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3.5 yrs I am the type of person that feels that you shouldn't hop from job to job. That you should find one GOOD job- and stick with it. But my boyfriend on the other hand thinks- if your not happy with your current job you keep switching until you find the right now. Well.... your never going to find the " PERFECT" job- there are ALWAYS little quirks to the description/job.
Well, me and my boyfriend moved from Iowa to Arizona- to find better jobs. My boyfriend has been out here since December. Between december-january he's had 3 jobs!!!!!! he's still working at that 3rd job right now, but he's wanting to find a new one AGAIN! He wants to find a new one because #1 its frickin hot outside #2 the way the other workers treat him #3 he gets paid under the table, no benefits.....he would rather work legally!
So he wants to change jobs now.... I understand he's not happy where he's working- but will he ever be completely satisfied? I mean I don't think you should switch over and over and over- let alone my family will probably look down on him for being so inconsistent and they want me to be "stable"
UGH I don't know what to do, how to feel.... me and my boyfriend keep fighting over this and it's causing me to FREAK OUT! and I don't want to cuz I love him and just want this to be all over with.....
please help me
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3.5 yrs I am the type of person that feels that you shouldn't hop from job to job. That you should find one GOOD job- and stick with it. But my boyfriend on the other hand thinks- if your not happy with your current job you keep switching until you find the right now. Well.... your never going to find the " PERFECT" job- there are ALWAYS little quirks to the description/job.
Well, me and my boyfriend moved from Iowa to Arizona- to find better jobs. My boyfriend has been out here since December. Between december-january he's had 3 jobs!!!!!! he's still working at that 3rd job right now, but he's wanting to find a new one AGAIN! He wants to find a new one because #1 its frickin hot outside #2 the way the other workers treat him #3 he gets paid under the table, no benefits.....he would rather work legally!
So he wants to change jobs now.... I understand he's not happy where he's working- but will he ever be completely satisfied? I mean I don't think you should switch over and over and over- let alone my family will probably look down on him for being so inconsistent and they want me to be "stable"
UGH I don't know what to do, how to feel.... me and my boyfriend keep fighting over this and it's causing me to FREAK OUT! and I don't want to cuz I love him and just want this to be all over with.....
please help me