about a guy. Here is the story...
I met a guy named Matt, we have been dating for a month and we have both fallen for each other. Here is where it gets messy; Mattâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s ex girlfriend of 3 1/2 years has got in contact with him, she broke up with Matt in January 2006, they got back together in August to try it again but did not work. They do not see eye to eye on just about everything and fight. Matt had decided to have coffee with her and he said that he is not sure if he is still in love with Stacy (his ex) or just the good memories of her, so he wants to figure that out. I told Matt that we should not see each other if he is doing this, Matt agreed. But now Matt is still calling me and misses me and wants to see me. My emotions canâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t handle this. I feel the very same way as he does, I have not seen him in 3 weeks but I have talked to Matt on the phone. I have not once contacted him. I canâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t help but think why is he calling me to talk when he wants to be back with his ex???
Matt had told me that he has feelings for me and that we would be a perfect match together. I had said the same thing. I really like Matt, and can not stop thinking about him. (BTW he told me this the night we decide it wasnâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t a good idea that we see each other anymore because of how he felt about his ex.)
So what should I do about this situation?? I want to be with Matt, and it seems to me that he would like to be with me as well but he also has feelings for his ex. Why canâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t he just accept that it is not going to work out with his ex and get on with his life, he has met me now and he should be happy. If Matt and I had a relationship together he could then see that we just may be a better match then him and Stacey were.
I need some advice please!!!
I met a guy named Matt, we have been dating for a month and we have both fallen for each other. Here is where it gets messy; Mattâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s ex girlfriend of 3 1/2 years has got in contact with him, she broke up with Matt in January 2006, they got back together in August to try it again but did not work. They do not see eye to eye on just about everything and fight. Matt had decided to have coffee with her and he said that he is not sure if he is still in love with Stacy (his ex) or just the good memories of her, so he wants to figure that out. I told Matt that we should not see each other if he is doing this, Matt agreed. But now Matt is still calling me and misses me and wants to see me. My emotions canâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t handle this. I feel the very same way as he does, I have not seen him in 3 weeks but I have talked to Matt on the phone. I have not once contacted him. I canâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t help but think why is he calling me to talk when he wants to be back with his ex???
Matt had told me that he has feelings for me and that we would be a perfect match together. I had said the same thing. I really like Matt, and can not stop thinking about him. (BTW he told me this the night we decide it wasnâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t a good idea that we see each other anymore because of how he felt about his ex.)
So what should I do about this situation?? I want to be with Matt, and it seems to me that he would like to be with me as well but he also has feelings for his ex. Why canâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t he just accept that it is not going to work out with his ex and get on with his life, he has met me now and he should be happy. If Matt and I had a relationship together he could then see that we just may be a better match then him and Stacey were.
I need some advice please!!!