HI...I currently am loved and owned by a 4 yr old Golden Retreiver and a 2 yr old kitty. (among others..hamster, bird and fish). My Golden has the sweetest and kindest disposition without one ounce of agression ever...I adopted my MALE kitty when he was 4mos old . I was really scared of having a cat who was spooked and afraid and not people friendly. This was my first cat and the only expereince i had was with my brothers cat who was soooo unfriendly. Well, was I in for a surprise. My kitty has never hissed, follows me everywhere, greets me at the door when I come home and is the most friendly cat I have ever met. He lets me cut his nails, kiss him up, etc...Don't get me wrong, he plays with my husband and play bites him...(never anyone unless you are playing with him) and is very very playful. NOW, here is the dilemma...I have the itch to adopt another kitten. BUT, after reading these forums, everyone talks about such issues. I am scared to do an injustice to my perfect kitty. Would getting another one upset him? I wanted to adopt another one due to the fact that 1. there are so many that need a home and 2. I thought it might be fun for him. I am not too worried about my Golden as he accept anything. I am now scared after reading these threads, about fighting, etc....What should i do? Does it make a difference that my kitty is a neutured 2 yr old male, maybe another male would be good? Any suggestions....THANK YOU!!!