I moved out

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Originally Posted by krazy kat2

I am not sure why you feel guilty. There is no guilt in getting away from a bad situation.
Its still her family though..I understand the guilt. I lived with it with family too unfortunately. Moved out when I was 16 because of it.

Gail, I am so happy you are getting out of that negative situation...you are very strong. I know how hard it is
 

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Originally Posted by littleraven7726

I can't believe I missed this post. that everything works out. Your kitties will settle in, it may take a bit though. And congratulations on your new kitty.


I agree with the others--take a friend or 2 when you get your stuff. And have your friend ready to dial 9-1-1 if necessary.
I helped a friend move out from an abusive situation, we did it all in one day.
Originally Posted by Sweets

May I make a suggestion? Don't go back for your clothes alone. Bring a friend. Maybe bring a police officer. Abuse is abuse whether it is verbal or physical. And often verbal abuse will escalate to physical when the abuser is pushed into a corner. You just pushed them into a corner. Take EVERYTHING in one trip. Maybe a friend can store some stuff for you.
those and a side note.. if you cant afford being on your own DO look into some help ... It wont be long before your on both feet
 

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Gail I just saw this thread. I hope things are going well, I wish only the best for you! You can make it on your own! Please let us know how you are doing.
 
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