After half a year of seeing one another, I have decided that my boyfriend is not the man for me. He is not supportive of me going to school. And he's been pressuring me to marry him and have children with him right away. I just barely got divorced and I don't have a desire to settle down again for a long time. My goals right now is to finish school and find a stable job were I can last for years and support the children I already have. My boyfriend also lied to me. When we first met, I told him that I have a desire to live my life with dogs, cats, and horses. He said he was fine with my desires. But the other day, he told me we were not having any animals. He only told me he was fine with it to please me. He also lied about his legalization. He is an ilegal immigrant from Mexico. He kept telling me that he wants to marry me because he really cared about me and the kids. But after so much pressure for marriage, I saw through him that his intention for marrying me was to get legalized. He denies it. I told him if he really wants to marry me, than go to Mexico and get a legal visa.
Actually, breaking up was easy. I loved him and everything, but he lives in northen California and I live in Utah. We hardly ever see each other. He wanted me to move over there to live with him. I told him that I can't because the kids are here. He told me I can see them every weekend. He would pay for the plane ticket and hotel room. There is no way he can afford that! And also I really don't feel good about keeping my children in a hotel room rather then in their own home. I really don't want to marry again. I like living alone were I can make my own decisions without anyone interfering. I have a great desire to prove to myself that I can achive my goals and dreams. Boyfriends I will have, but no husbands. At least for a long time. Hey, I am 28 years old. I am still young! It is like the song, I will Survive!
Actually, breaking up was easy. I loved him and everything, but he lives in northen California and I live in Utah. We hardly ever see each other. He wanted me to move over there to live with him. I told him that I can't because the kids are here. He told me I can see them every weekend. He would pay for the plane ticket and hotel room. There is no way he can afford that! And also I really don't feel good about keeping my children in a hotel room rather then in their own home. I really don't want to marry again. I like living alone were I can make my own decisions without anyone interfering. I have a great desire to prove to myself that I can achive my goals and dreams. Boyfriends I will have, but no husbands. At least for a long time. Hey, I am 28 years old. I am still young! It is like the song, I will Survive!