Weâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]ve talked about finding Arek a new home, and we had finally found the “perfect†home for him. But Iâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]m having second thoughts… guys, I just donâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t think I can do it. Arek is MY CAT!!! I just canâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t give him up - I just canâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t! Even my husband (who is NOT a cat person) was telling me that heâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]d rather give up any of the other cats before heâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]d want to give up Arek. I donâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t know why I love him so much, when he wants nothing to do with me, but I DO! And I donâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t think I can let him go. Does that make me a bad person??? I donâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t think heâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s miserable here. I DO think he might do better in another home, but he and Shakhar are getting along better, they were even sleeping together today! Who knows… in a few years he might come out of his shell and be just fine… heâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]s only been here for about five months, maybe he just hasn't had enough time to really settle in? I donâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t know what to do!!! I just CANâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]T let him go!!! And you were all saying how unselfish I was being, and how good it was to put his needs before myself, but here I am thinking I just canâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t do it. Couldnâ€[emoji]8482[/emoji]t I keep him for a while longer and see what happens???!!! Am I a horrible person for wanting to keep him?