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I don't know what to do.. I don't want to rehome him but I cannot stand this cat. We have had him for almost a year. He was very sick when we rescued him. We got him medication and everything through the vet and he is healthy now. He still has not been fixed but that will probably happen within the next month at the latest.
I wanted a cat really bad before we got him but he is the first cat I've ever had so I don't know if this means I'm not a cat person after all, or I just don't like this cat. He doesn't play or come out at all during the day, unless its to eat or maybe play with the dog. He completely ignores us and most of the day time I forget he's even here. He will come to you if he knows he's going to be petted... but I don't have a lot of time to sit there and pet a cat I don't really like just to get fur everywhere. The worst part is the meowing.
We don't see him all day and then the SECOND we all go to bed he starts meowing. And he does it ALL. NIGHT. LONG. I have a toddler that I still get up with throughout the night so I'm really hating on this cat for making me lose more sleep and waking my youngest up even more. I'm hoping getting him fixed will help that.. but honestly even if it does, I have no bond with this animal. I mean sure I'd be sad if we did rehome him, and I would feel bad for my kids who say they love him (even though there is barely any interaction between them). I just don't know what to do. My husband can't stand him either.
Even if getting him fixed put an end to the meowing... I still wouldn't really have an affection for him. He would just... exist. Ugh, I don't know what to do. Advice?
I wanted a cat really bad before we got him but he is the first cat I've ever had so I don't know if this means I'm not a cat person after all, or I just don't like this cat. He doesn't play or come out at all during the day, unless its to eat or maybe play with the dog. He completely ignores us and most of the day time I forget he's even here. He will come to you if he knows he's going to be petted... but I don't have a lot of time to sit there and pet a cat I don't really like just to get fur everywhere. The worst part is the meowing.
We don't see him all day and then the SECOND we all go to bed he starts meowing. And he does it ALL. NIGHT. LONG. I have a toddler that I still get up with throughout the night so I'm really hating on this cat for making me lose more sleep and waking my youngest up even more. I'm hoping getting him fixed will help that.. but honestly even if it does, I have no bond with this animal. I mean sure I'd be sad if we did rehome him, and I would feel bad for my kids who say they love him (even though there is barely any interaction between them). I just don't know what to do. My husband can't stand him either.
Even if getting him fixed put an end to the meowing... I still wouldn't really have an affection for him. He would just... exist. Ugh, I don't know what to do. Advice?