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We ( me, mom and dad) live in a 4 rooms apartment and we own a 3 yo russian blue (he is a boy). I love him with all my heart and so do my parents ( my dad more than my mom, but she does care about him).
The thing is that my parents had allowed him to go outside and wander around in the building. We live on the first floor. At first he had been scared, but really curious. The problem is that as time has gone by he cries more and more at the door to be left outside. ( in the building). He even tries to open the door.
The problem is that now he goes to the building's front door and when other neighbours come inside he sneeks past them and runs straight outside on the street. This had happened in the past two weeks very often. I don't want him to go outside because we'd lose him.
We bought leash and sometimes we walk him outside, but now even when we come back inside he just meows at the door and it is really exhausting for all of us.
I feel really bad for him and I am very sad..
We had always spoiled him. I personally never agreed to him going around in the building because I knew that eventually we could lose him..
I must specific that he is not a loving jump-in-your-lap kind of cat. He likes to be pet when he wants to be pet and he always sleeps with someone in the bed( either me or my parents). He is loving but in his own way..
I just don't know and don;t understant what to do in this situation...
ps: english is not my first language, so excuse me if there is anything that you don't understand
The thing is that my parents had allowed him to go outside and wander around in the building. We live on the first floor. At first he had been scared, but really curious. The problem is that as time has gone by he cries more and more at the door to be left outside. ( in the building). He even tries to open the door.
The problem is that now he goes to the building's front door and when other neighbours come inside he sneeks past them and runs straight outside on the street. This had happened in the past two weeks very often. I don't want him to go outside because we'd lose him.
We bought leash and sometimes we walk him outside, but now even when we come back inside he just meows at the door and it is really exhausting for all of us.
I feel really bad for him and I am very sad..
We had always spoiled him. I personally never agreed to him going around in the building because I knew that eventually we could lose him..
I must specific that he is not a loving jump-in-your-lap kind of cat. He likes to be pet when he wants to be pet and he always sleeps with someone in the bed( either me or my parents). He is loving but in his own way..
I just don't know and don;t understant what to do in this situation...
ps: english is not my first language, so excuse me if there is anything that you don't understand
They can really work us hard with their whining, but they're also easily distracted.
