So I've mentioned before about how the past six months or so my cat Sophie has been urinating all over the house, on our clothing, bedding, furniture, ANYTHING.
So basically, I am about 98% positive it is an emotional issue, she has VERY high anxiety for a cat.
Sophie is a male, so sorry for the confusion with the adverbs here......so we spent sixty dollars yesterday to go have a vet check up and the vet said before he will put her on any medication he needs a FULL check up, including all the blood work, urine samples, and checking the penis for crystals or whatever.
We scheduled the entire procedure for tomorrow, where the vet will put her in the tank and run all the tests to make sure there are no PHYSICAL problems.
This was fine with my husband yesterday and then today he decided to absolute forbid me from spending the $500 to have this done.
I don't know what to do..... Sophie has had multiple vet check ups over the past two years of her life for various reasons and has never displayed an infection or anything besides oral herpes, which we give L-Lysine for.
Like I said, I'm pretty positive it's come to the point where Sophie just needs medication but I can't get medication without a vet ruling out all other possibilities, and getting my husband to spend this money is not going to happen.........he said he would rather put the cat down than continue to spend money on these problems.
I've tried feliway, which by itself is expensive, I've tried all the advice given to me, I don't know what to do!!!
Please someone help me, offer some words of advice here.......I have no one to turn to that doesn't ALSO have the opinion "put the cat down".
I REFUSE to put down my baby when the problem is fixable, but obviously we AND her cant' live like this!!!
So basically, I am about 98% positive it is an emotional issue, she has VERY high anxiety for a cat.
Sophie is a male, so sorry for the confusion with the adverbs here......so we spent sixty dollars yesterday to go have a vet check up and the vet said before he will put her on any medication he needs a FULL check up, including all the blood work, urine samples, and checking the penis for crystals or whatever.
We scheduled the entire procedure for tomorrow, where the vet will put her in the tank and run all the tests to make sure there are no PHYSICAL problems.
This was fine with my husband yesterday and then today he decided to absolute forbid me from spending the $500 to have this done.
I don't know what to do..... Sophie has had multiple vet check ups over the past two years of her life for various reasons and has never displayed an infection or anything besides oral herpes, which we give L-Lysine for.
Like I said, I'm pretty positive it's come to the point where Sophie just needs medication but I can't get medication without a vet ruling out all other possibilities, and getting my husband to spend this money is not going to happen.........he said he would rather put the cat down than continue to spend money on these problems.
I've tried feliway, which by itself is expensive, I've tried all the advice given to me, I don't know what to do!!!
Please someone help me, offer some words of advice here.......I have no one to turn to that doesn't ALSO have the opinion "put the cat down".
I REFUSE to put down my baby when the problem is fixable, but obviously we AND her cant' live like this!!!