This sucks! I thought he would be a good fit in our new home, but 2 times in one week, the first week
he moved in!!! He came home wasted, sloppy drunk both times calling me from the living room, first time 5 am on a Thursday and 5 hours later still wasted with this story of breaking up with his girlfriend so he got drunk. I gave him the benefit if the doubt, cooked breakfast the next morning for us, tried to be a friend. Then Sunday morning, 8 am comes home stumbling wasted again! Calling me from the living room waking me up! Then goes in his room playing music really loud to the point where I had to pound on his door and tell him to turn it down! Then he continues to call people, like his mother, and piss them off to the point of yelling on the phone, then yelling at the computer while watching a movie so loud he was competing with it! I was so mad I had to leave, and when I came back an hour later I found him calling my name again but in the building hall....I told him that I was pissed, that this was the second time he was wasted in 4 days in the morning, that if this is how he is this won't work. I literally had to get loud with him and tell him to go sleep it off, and we would talk when he was sober. He also has left the main door not only unlocked but ajar a few times......and Maia being the most important thing in my life, really freaks me out!
So hes been out since Friday afternoon and came home a couple hours ago, I heard what sounded like someone fall in the hall, then lots of stumbling with his door. He is avoiding me because he doesn't want to be confronted again, but I am embarrassed and humiliated! There are cameras in the halls that I am pretty sure he doesn't know about. I love my new home, my landlord lives below us and is the sweetest older lady. I am on the lease by myself and am responsible for his actions......It hasn't even been 2 weeks.........
Also the reason why I chose him was because he is in his 30's, part owner of a company, even though works from home as a graphics artist ( I'm also an artist) he seemed responsible, and presented all proper documents the third time we met . Thought I was avoiding the college student, immature bull.
What would you do? Or better how would you approach this because I already know what I need to do..............
So hes been out since Friday afternoon and came home a couple hours ago, I heard what sounded like someone fall in the hall, then lots of stumbling with his door. He is avoiding me because he doesn't want to be confronted again, but I am embarrassed and humiliated! There are cameras in the halls that I am pretty sure he doesn't know about. I love my new home, my landlord lives below us and is the sweetest older lady. I am on the lease by myself and am responsible for his actions......It hasn't even been 2 weeks.........
Also the reason why I chose him was because he is in his 30's, part owner of a company, even though works from home as a graphics artist ( I'm also an artist) he seemed responsible, and presented all proper documents the third time we met . Thought I was avoiding the college student, immature bull.
What would you do? Or better how would you approach this because I already know what I need to do..............