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Ok guys, this might be a lengthy one but bear with me.
soooo, I am planning on getting my nose pierced. Big deal. Everyone does it. Yeah I know. Lol but my main concern is my dad’s reaction.
Now let me clarify that I am not underage, I am almost 30. I don’t live with my parents, I have my own job, pay my bills, have a family etc etc…. All that adult stuff. My dad has always had something to say about people with tattoos and piercings. He’s very conservative, and old fashioned. I’m talking about piercings-are-for-earlobes and paying-your-bills-online-isn’t-a-thing old fashioned. I don’t know if I should let him know that I’m going to get it, or if I should just “surprise him” and just show up at his house with it. You guys are probably like “girl you’re old enough to make these decisions!!” I know I don’t need his permission. But he’s going to be disappointed and there’s a chance he might say something that will annoy me, so that’s why I’m a little….. scared? (For a lack of better word). I’m getting it regardless. And I can probably avoid him for so long without him seeing it. So I’m thinking I might as well tell him it’s getting done before it does, but I really don’t know how to go about it. I know it’s not like he’s going to disown me or anything like that. I need advice, guys. What should I do?? Should I give him a heads up, or surprise him?
soooo, I am planning on getting my nose pierced. Big deal. Everyone does it. Yeah I know. Lol but my main concern is my dad’s reaction.
Now let me clarify that I am not underage, I am almost 30. I don’t live with my parents, I have my own job, pay my bills, have a family etc etc…. All that adult stuff. My dad has always had something to say about people with tattoos and piercings. He’s very conservative, and old fashioned. I’m talking about piercings-are-for-earlobes and paying-your-bills-online-isn’t-a-thing old fashioned. I don’t know if I should let him know that I’m going to get it, or if I should just “surprise him” and just show up at his house with it. You guys are probably like “girl you’re old enough to make these decisions!!” I know I don’t need his permission. But he’s going to be disappointed and there’s a chance he might say something that will annoy me, so that’s why I’m a little….. scared? (For a lack of better word). I’m getting it regardless. And I can probably avoid him for so long without him seeing it. So I’m thinking I might as well tell him it’s getting done before it does, but I really don’t know how to go about it. I know it’s not like he’s going to disown me or anything like that. I need advice, guys. What should I do?? Should I give him a heads up, or surprise him?
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