Any advice very welcome!
My tomcat Stan is now with us about 10 days and mixing with the 2 girls while we are at work then supervised in the evenings and put in his bedroom at night (because we need our sleep!). It's actually going OK. He is not aggressive but Henrietta is! She hisses and lashes out if he gets close and he just wants to play or cuddle. yesterday I came home and the 2 of them were on the bed together, granted, about a meter from each other but looked fine and relaxed...then later she smacked him again cos he passed by too close. I feel so sorry for him as he is very sweet and I also feel Henrietta's stress as she is very sulky and grumpy. The other female Polly seems Ok and has been playing a bit with him and following him around but also looks quite stressed when he is playing rough by himself and galloping around.
Is there anything I can do to ease the relationship between Stan and Henrietta or will he learn to stay away form her? I am terrified he might retaliate some day
caro
My tomcat Stan is now with us about 10 days and mixing with the 2 girls while we are at work then supervised in the evenings and put in his bedroom at night (because we need our sleep!). It's actually going OK. He is not aggressive but Henrietta is! She hisses and lashes out if he gets close and he just wants to play or cuddle. yesterday I came home and the 2 of them were on the bed together, granted, about a meter from each other but looked fine and relaxed...then later she smacked him again cos he passed by too close. I feel so sorry for him as he is very sweet and I also feel Henrietta's stress as she is very sulky and grumpy. The other female Polly seems Ok and has been playing a bit with him and following him around but also looks quite stressed when he is playing rough by himself and galloping around.
Is there anything I can do to ease the relationship between Stan and Henrietta or will he learn to stay away form her? I am terrified he might retaliate some day
caro