Navi, one of my exclusively indoor cats slipped out a door left ajar by mistake and has been outside almost a month now. (I have another thread in the feral/stray cat forum about trapping her.) She is almost 5 years old and I adopted her and her brother when they were 6 months old. I don't know their history but they were likely born feral and/or outside and likely didn't get good socialization with humans as kittens. They hid under a couch in my spare room for 2 months and it took me a good 6 months to earn their trust. Navi has gotten out twice before but the last time was nearly 2 years ago. Both these times she came back in at night through an open door after 2 nights.
Anyway, like I said, she's been out almost a month now and it's only been in the last few days that she has shown herself. I've seen her at night on the wildlife camera I bought and she has eaten some of the food I've put out at night. But I've started to feed her during the early mornings and evenings since the food at night was attracting raccoons. And she has come out at these times - but stayed on the far end of our yard about 50 feet from me. I'm pretty sure she hasn't left the yard this whole time - we have large bushes all around she can hide in.
The past few days when she's been around when I'm putting out food she acts extremely scared and won't let me come close. I've gotten down on the ground and spoken softly to her and say the things I would normally say to her if she were in the house. She just yowls back at me and does not seem happy. If I make any kind of move close to her - even bringing food - she'll slink off into the bushes. I really don't understand her behavior since in the house she has become a pretty nice house cat - will sit on our laps, come sleep with us, eat treats out of my hand, "talk" to me, etc. In the house, she is still skittish at times and fearful of strangers and doesn't like to be picked up.
I guess being outside she has reverted but I'm trying to understand. Best case I can get her back inside (I've gotten great advice from the other thread so I'm not looking for trapping advice here), but really I'd like to understand and regain her trust. I don't think she's truly happy outside but I'm hoping at the very least I can keep her around as an outside cat and will continue to feed her and hopefully get her to trust me again.
Anyway, like I said, she's been out almost a month now and it's only been in the last few days that she has shown herself. I've seen her at night on the wildlife camera I bought and she has eaten some of the food I've put out at night. But I've started to feed her during the early mornings and evenings since the food at night was attracting raccoons. And she has come out at these times - but stayed on the far end of our yard about 50 feet from me. I'm pretty sure she hasn't left the yard this whole time - we have large bushes all around she can hide in.
The past few days when she's been around when I'm putting out food she acts extremely scared and won't let me come close. I've gotten down on the ground and spoken softly to her and say the things I would normally say to her if she were in the house. She just yowls back at me and does not seem happy. If I make any kind of move close to her - even bringing food - she'll slink off into the bushes. I really don't understand her behavior since in the house she has become a pretty nice house cat - will sit on our laps, come sleep with us, eat treats out of my hand, "talk" to me, etc. In the house, she is still skittish at times and fearful of strangers and doesn't like to be picked up.
I guess being outside she has reverted but I'm trying to understand. Best case I can get her back inside (I've gotten great advice from the other thread so I'm not looking for trapping advice here), but really I'd like to understand and regain her trust. I don't think she's truly happy outside but I'm hoping at the very least I can keep her around as an outside cat and will continue to feed her and hopefully get her to trust me again.