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That's why my medievil or scottish themed wedding means we all buy our own outfits with a little part that matches. No silly identical dresses!
I'd be exactly the same, and if she was huffed, tough!. They could have the dress free of charge as well because i'd have more important things on my mind than posing with a false smile on picturesOriginally Posted by Trouts mom
I really can't see myself being in a wedding if Trout just died.
My husband's sister had a good friend (a male) as her "man of honour". I thought it was a great idea.Originally Posted by CarolPetunia
Y'know, my brother is the only person I know of who had a groomsmaid in his wedding!
It was his first marriage, to a wonderful girl who is still a friend of the family. One of my brother's best friends at the time was a woman, so he asked her to be in the wedding! She suffered from a chronic illness that made it hard for her to walk, but by golly, she did it. I was proud of my brother (and the girl he was marrying) for making their wedding about the people who were important in their lives... even though it precluded the standard symmetrical arrangement of beautiful people in perfectly matched dresses and tuxes.
My husband did that.Originally Posted by CarolPetunia
Y'know, my brother is the only person I know of who had a groomsmaid in his wedding!
It was his first marriage, to a wonderful girl who is still a friend of the family. One of my brother's best friends at the time was a woman, so he asked her to be in the wedding! She suffered from a chronic illness that made it hard for her to walk, but by golly, she did it. I was proud of my brother (and the girl he was marrying) for making their wedding about the people who were important in their lives... even though it precluded the standard symmetrical arrangement of beautiful people in perfectly matched dresses and tuxes.
I stuck with family only. Since I have a huge family, that was no problem.Originally Posted by fwan
This is a reason why i wouldnt have any bridesmaids for my wedding
I agree completely. Just b/c it is her dog doesn't mean that life means any less to that person.Originally Posted by Natalie_ca
I disagree.
Everyone handles grief differently. Some people deal with death "better" than others and can carry on with their life seemingly unaffected. Others fall to pieces and fall into a depression and can't function.
The dog obviously meant a great deal to her and she was apparently affected greatly by it's death. If it had been the death or her Mother or a sibling or any other relative, this wouldn't even be an issue because people would be more understanding, but because it was a pet, she is expected to suck it up and suppress her grief and put on a smiley face.
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Originally Posted by trixie23
That chick sounds like she needs a punch in the face