I didn't say I agreed with praising them for every little thing, just that that is how a man's brain works. Proven in studies, they don't process info the same as women do. Whether you agree with how to do something doesn't matter, it's the end result that you are after.Originally Posted by katiemae1277
Good luck with it Brandi!
I don't know why, but it just irks me to no end when people's advice (and this is in no way directed at the person giving the advice, just the concept of the advice) consists of lavishly praising the guy for lifting one little finger- where is OUR praise for doing ever gosh darn little thing? this advice was also given to me about my ex and I refused to go down that path, he's a grown man, not a child, and needs to be treated as such. Sorry just had to vent about that