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Hi there!
But of a strange one but here we go.
we got a new kitten last month and we all love him in our own little ways.
I work full time so when my little ball of energy wakes me up in the night it can really affect my work. My partner is self employed and doesn’t have work often but is a heavy sleeper and doesn’t wake up to distract the kitten. So my house mate (let’s call her B) offers to take him into her room some nights.
whilst I am extremely grateful for B’s help looking after my little guy, she came to me the other day brandishing a spray bottle saying I should invest in one of them because it has changed his behaviour. I was immediately dumbfounded that all I could muster was “I think that’s a bit too corporal”
my boyfriend is happy to let her use the spray bottle, which has put me at a bit of a disadvantage because it’s his kitten too and he’s essentially given B the go ahead to spray my cat with a water bottle. Being an avid watcher of My Cat From Hell and also having a degree in feline behaviour and psychology I feel that this does more harm than good and I’m a bit upset nobody has spoken to me.
what do I do here? I’m obviously upset that my 4 month old kitten is being punished for being a baby. Apparently she only sprays him when he’s doing something she’s not happy with E.G clawing her bed etc. But I would prefer she use the technique of gently lift him away from the thing you don’t want him to do and redirect his attention and praise him for the good behaviour.
what’s your guys thoughts on spray bottles? I personally think it’s archaic. What do I do in this situation?
But of a strange one but here we go.
we got a new kitten last month and we all love him in our own little ways.
I work full time so when my little ball of energy wakes me up in the night it can really affect my work. My partner is self employed and doesn’t have work often but is a heavy sleeper and doesn’t wake up to distract the kitten. So my house mate (let’s call her B) offers to take him into her room some nights.
whilst I am extremely grateful for B’s help looking after my little guy, she came to me the other day brandishing a spray bottle saying I should invest in one of them because it has changed his behaviour. I was immediately dumbfounded that all I could muster was “I think that’s a bit too corporal”
my boyfriend is happy to let her use the spray bottle, which has put me at a bit of a disadvantage because it’s his kitten too and he’s essentially given B the go ahead to spray my cat with a water bottle. Being an avid watcher of My Cat From Hell and also having a degree in feline behaviour and psychology I feel that this does more harm than good and I’m a bit upset nobody has spoken to me.
what do I do here? I’m obviously upset that my 4 month old kitten is being punished for being a baby. Apparently she only sprays him when he’s doing something she’s not happy with E.G clawing her bed etc. But I would prefer she use the technique of gently lift him away from the thing you don’t want him to do and redirect his attention and praise him for the good behaviour.
what’s your guys thoughts on spray bottles? I personally think it’s archaic. What do I do in this situation?