I hope someone has advice for me. I adopted my very sweet cat about 3 years ago. She was in a shelter--after having been thrown from a car and rescued by a cat-lover who saw it happen (but had 3 cats of her own and could not take another). She brought her to my vet, who had a small shelter in her office/home. At the time, the vet guessed her age at about 3, so she's just about 6-7 now. When Molly came to live with me, she hid for 2 weeks, but we're old friends now, and she's the most loving cat I've ever had--a true 'lap cat.'
The only problem is that she will NOT be held, which makes it difficult to confine her for vet visits (I have a mobile vet). I worry, too, if and when I have to confine her to get her to the vet in some emergency or for a procedure. I suspect her 'pre-rescue' past is the reason for her aversion to anyone holding her. Someone who would throw a cat out of a car may have abused her in other ways.
At her check up last week, my vet gave me gabapentin to try, and I've used it twice. Both times, she was very 'mellow,' but if I tried to hold her, the stress overcame the med, and she was her feisty self. Her reflexes were a little slower, so I think I might have been able to deal with her in a real emergency. But I'd like to see if I can get her to let me hold her without any meds.
Anyone have any experience/advice in how I can get her to like being held as much as she loves loafing on my lap?
The only problem is that she will NOT be held, which makes it difficult to confine her for vet visits (I have a mobile vet). I worry, too, if and when I have to confine her to get her to the vet in some emergency or for a procedure. I suspect her 'pre-rescue' past is the reason for her aversion to anyone holding her. Someone who would throw a cat out of a car may have abused her in other ways.
At her check up last week, my vet gave me gabapentin to try, and I've used it twice. Both times, she was very 'mellow,' but if I tried to hold her, the stress overcame the med, and she was her feisty self. Her reflexes were a little slower, so I think I might have been able to deal with her in a real emergency. But I'd like to see if I can get her to let me hold her without any meds.
Anyone have any experience/advice in how I can get her to like being held as much as she loves loafing on my lap?