Hi,
I sadly had to have my beloved 15yo cat Alyosha put to sleep two days ago after his kidneys began to fail about two weeks ago. I still have his littermate twin brother Vanya, and I am looking for advice on how to help Vanya deal with this loss. I may make another post asking for advice for myself. They were together all their lives. They were orphaned feral street cats living in a residential parking lot with their other siblings when I got them at about 4 months old. In their time with me, they would often cuddle, fight, and groom each other. I am afraid that Alyosha's absence may have a detrimental effect on Vanya's happiness.
Alyosha was in the hospital for about 4 days after I initially noticed a problem and brought him into the emergency room. When I got home from work one day, he was using a new very isolated spot, there was poop on the floor and vomit on the carpet, and when he came out, he went to the litter box but just stood there and didn't do anything. I brought him to the emergency room right away. They actually sent us home that night saying they didn't see anything seriously wrong, but I brought him back the next morning which led to his hospital stay. While Alyosha was in the hospital, Vanya was very happy and rambunctious, moreso than usual, so I think he was enjoying being the only cat. After I brought Alyosha home (having been given the devastating news of Alyosha's prognosis of a couple days to a couple weeks), even though for most of those 10 days or so he seemed very comfortable, and they would still cuddle, I think Vanya could tell he was sick. Alyosha was lethargic and lost his appetite. Vanya would no longer try to start fights with him and would just meow I think realizing that Alyosha wouldn't want to or be able to fight back.
Since Alyosha left us for good, Vanya has exhibited some slightly unusual behavior. He is definitely acting differently than he was while Alyosha was in the hospital. For example, yesterday he seemed to be looking around the apartment for his brother, something I've never seen him do before. A few times he has meowed at me in a way that seems new that I interpreted as him asking me where his brother his, but maybe I am just projecting that onto him. I have of course been giving him extra attention, but is there anything else I can do for him? I have thought about getting a kitten to keep him company, but I am not sure he would like that. How would I know?
Grateful for any advice. Thanks.
(photo is Vanya on left and Alyosha on right, about six months ago)
I sadly had to have my beloved 15yo cat Alyosha put to sleep two days ago after his kidneys began to fail about two weeks ago. I still have his littermate twin brother Vanya, and I am looking for advice on how to help Vanya deal with this loss. I may make another post asking for advice for myself. They were together all their lives. They were orphaned feral street cats living in a residential parking lot with their other siblings when I got them at about 4 months old. In their time with me, they would often cuddle, fight, and groom each other. I am afraid that Alyosha's absence may have a detrimental effect on Vanya's happiness.
Alyosha was in the hospital for about 4 days after I initially noticed a problem and brought him into the emergency room. When I got home from work one day, he was using a new very isolated spot, there was poop on the floor and vomit on the carpet, and when he came out, he went to the litter box but just stood there and didn't do anything. I brought him to the emergency room right away. They actually sent us home that night saying they didn't see anything seriously wrong, but I brought him back the next morning which led to his hospital stay. While Alyosha was in the hospital, Vanya was very happy and rambunctious, moreso than usual, so I think he was enjoying being the only cat. After I brought Alyosha home (having been given the devastating news of Alyosha's prognosis of a couple days to a couple weeks), even though for most of those 10 days or so he seemed very comfortable, and they would still cuddle, I think Vanya could tell he was sick. Alyosha was lethargic and lost his appetite. Vanya would no longer try to start fights with him and would just meow I think realizing that Alyosha wouldn't want to or be able to fight back.
Since Alyosha left us for good, Vanya has exhibited some slightly unusual behavior. He is definitely acting differently than he was while Alyosha was in the hospital. For example, yesterday he seemed to be looking around the apartment for his brother, something I've never seen him do before. A few times he has meowed at me in a way that seems new that I interpreted as him asking me where his brother his, but maybe I am just projecting that onto him. I have of course been giving him extra attention, but is there anything else I can do for him? I have thought about getting a kitten to keep him company, but I am not sure he would like that. How would I know?
Grateful for any advice. Thanks.
(photo is Vanya on left and Alyosha on right, about six months ago)