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i would love if someone could help me with my situation.
One thing I did allot of was talk to her allot..everytime I left I'd pet her goodbye and comfort her, then when I came home I'd say out loud, "WHERE'S MY LITTLE GIRL ?", and she would meow real loud then wait for pets and treats. I did spoil her too. She had a good life both before me, and with me, I could tell she was a loved cat, but, the guys daughter who first got her said she had to be the only cat in the house. It proved true. Mike againOriginally Posted by firebirdmagic
Had exactly the same situation with my first furbaby here in Medford. A torty female, who was a one owner that passed away cat. At first she had separation problems. Then I came to realize she was a one man on cat house. It was almost like she waited for me to go to bed, then she would put her little head on my extended arm and purr for a while then go to sleep. I almost hated to move my arm after that, but, she'd just curl up in a ball in my arm pit after that. She started warming up after a couple weeks. I could always tell when she got round eyed, she wanted to be loved or played. After a while she fit right in with me. I lost Tammy when she passed of both age, and diabetes. It really broke me up for awhile because we got real close and personal. After about 6 months I got Orion and started a new family. Got 3 now a bit crowded for a 1bdrm but it's comedy relief around here. They have a gazillion laugh in's a night. Mike Medford Or
Originally Posted by firebirdmagic
when I came home I'd say out loud, "WHERE'S MY LITTLE GIRL ?"
I think it's really good that your cat is affectionate with you sometimes, even if it's not as often as you'd like (yet). It shows she's starting to trust you and getting comfortable in her new surroundings. She just needs to do it in her own time, on her own terms.Originally Posted by Hotange115
she's soo affectionate after dark and when i'm getting ready for bed.