I have two cats, one boy one girl. The boy cat is 3 and a half years old and he is absolutely perfect. The female cat is 4 years old and is ruining my life. I got her when she was a kitten, she's been spayed, and she has been having issues going outside the litter box since day one. At first she use to go in my bed, sometimes peeing sometimes pooping. I would also figure out that she had peed on my clothes as well. I moved a couple times and she has continued to pee and poop in my bed, but then became more adventurous moving to using the couch and a bath tub. However now she has moved to my new rug and I am running out options. She does use the litter box at times but continues to go all over the house. I have used different types of litter as well as boxes for her to use not to mention them constantly being clean. I have recently purchased a calming collar for her but it doesn't appear to be working. She's a very sweet cat but I cant afford to keep replacing items that she has ruined. I'm getting extremely stressed out as well as my roommate. I'd hate to give up on her but I don't know what else to do. Any suggestions?