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Hi, brand new here, looking for advice, encouragement, and anything else.
Let me preface this with: I have NEVER owned a cat myself let alone raised a kitten. I'm much more comfortable with dogs, but even still, I've never raised a puppy on my own.
Long story short, I took in a 4-5 week old kitten that someone just dropped off, he is now 4 months old. I've named him Petra, short for Petrichor.
I live alone in a small one bedroom apartment. I'm technically not supposed to have a cat, so please don't suggest another kitten, as much as I would love that for him.
My issue is that I am increasingly frustrated with him. I cannot physically play with him enough to get his energy out, he is constantly eating, biting, chewing things that I can't always keep away from him. Like the carpet. I have wires that I have no way of hiding from him. I covered them in double sided tape, which has helped, but sometimes I see him nibbling at it. I have scratchers, I have toys of all kinds, I feed him great quality wet food only, he's never had kibble.
I didn't know better at first and have played with him with my hands this whole time. I put on a few layers of sleeves and he'll tackle, bite and kick my covered arms. I have no idea how to stop him doing this when he sees this as our primary mode of play. He will play with other toys, but I seem to be his favorite chew toy. I can't get him to stop biting at my long hair or my face, either.
I feel like because I am frustrated with his constant energy, biting me all over, his constant getting into things that I'm terrified will hurt or kill him (thumb tacks and push pins OMG). I feel I'm not loving him properly, and he doesn't like me. This may be the dog person in me coming out, that if he isn't wanting cuddles and pets, it must mean he hates me. Especially because he used to lay on me all the time and now he prefers his bed or even the floor.
I know a lot of his behavior is my fault, but I don't know how to fix it and I'm a bit exasperated.
Sometimes I yell, or throw a toy out of frustration. And I feel awful if I scare him.
I just wonder if he might be better off with someone else, but how can I adopt out a wily kitten that bites for sure?
Any help or advice would be greatly appreciated, thank you.
Let me preface this with: I have NEVER owned a cat myself let alone raised a kitten. I'm much more comfortable with dogs, but even still, I've never raised a puppy on my own.
Long story short, I took in a 4-5 week old kitten that someone just dropped off, he is now 4 months old. I've named him Petra, short for Petrichor.
I live alone in a small one bedroom apartment. I'm technically not supposed to have a cat, so please don't suggest another kitten, as much as I would love that for him.
My issue is that I am increasingly frustrated with him. I cannot physically play with him enough to get his energy out, he is constantly eating, biting, chewing things that I can't always keep away from him. Like the carpet. I have wires that I have no way of hiding from him. I covered them in double sided tape, which has helped, but sometimes I see him nibbling at it. I have scratchers, I have toys of all kinds, I feed him great quality wet food only, he's never had kibble.
I didn't know better at first and have played with him with my hands this whole time. I put on a few layers of sleeves and he'll tackle, bite and kick my covered arms. I have no idea how to stop him doing this when he sees this as our primary mode of play. He will play with other toys, but I seem to be his favorite chew toy. I can't get him to stop biting at my long hair or my face, either.
I feel like because I am frustrated with his constant energy, biting me all over, his constant getting into things that I'm terrified will hurt or kill him (thumb tacks and push pins OMG). I feel I'm not loving him properly, and he doesn't like me. This may be the dog person in me coming out, that if he isn't wanting cuddles and pets, it must mean he hates me. Especially because he used to lay on me all the time and now he prefers his bed or even the floor.
I know a lot of his behavior is my fault, but I don't know how to fix it and I'm a bit exasperated.
Sometimes I yell, or throw a toy out of frustration. And I feel awful if I scare him.
I just wonder if he might be better off with someone else, but how can I adopt out a wily kitten that bites for sure?
Any help or advice would be greatly appreciated, thank you.