please dont yell at me for posting another peeing problem. its just i am so tired already...havent eaten today and my dinner is ruined...well let me explain...
i am companion to an almost 8 yr old calico female, and we have always been very close. i just recently moved over 2 mos ago, and since then she has been peeing on my bedding area, mainly my pillow, whenever i leave. i an renting a room, and she stays in the room. at first she didnt do this at all, but as the weeks are passing she is doing this more and more. now it is almost everytime i leave, even if for just a minute. i am not very active at all, i am on disability for depression and am only going to school part time, i dont have ANY friends, so no social life for a few months now. i am not going to go into my personal situation.
today i left for about 45 min to mail a letter and get something to eat. i came back, all appeared ok, i went to use the bathroom, was very quick, came back into my room to a huge puddle on my makeshift pillow. she has peed on every pillow i owned, and then the one my mom gave me. i was using my winter jacket rolled up into a sheet as a pillow, because i am pretty poor and cant afford new pillows everyday. i know this is pathetic but what else could i do? now those are in the washer, my dinner is cold and useless. i feel like i cant leave at all without coming back to a big mess, something permantently destroyed, or both. i love this cat with all my heart, she is the only friend i have and she is not going anywhere. what should i do?? ive taken her to the vet, they said its a behavioral issue. ive been giving her more attention, buying her more treats, etc. but the problem obviously isnt going away.
can anyone help?
-stressed out kitty companion
i am companion to an almost 8 yr old calico female, and we have always been very close. i just recently moved over 2 mos ago, and since then she has been peeing on my bedding area, mainly my pillow, whenever i leave. i an renting a room, and she stays in the room. at first she didnt do this at all, but as the weeks are passing she is doing this more and more. now it is almost everytime i leave, even if for just a minute. i am not very active at all, i am on disability for depression and am only going to school part time, i dont have ANY friends, so no social life for a few months now. i am not going to go into my personal situation.
today i left for about 45 min to mail a letter and get something to eat. i came back, all appeared ok, i went to use the bathroom, was very quick, came back into my room to a huge puddle on my makeshift pillow. she has peed on every pillow i owned, and then the one my mom gave me. i was using my winter jacket rolled up into a sheet as a pillow, because i am pretty poor and cant afford new pillows everyday. i know this is pathetic but what else could i do? now those are in the washer, my dinner is cold and useless. i feel like i cant leave at all without coming back to a big mess, something permantently destroyed, or both. i love this cat with all my heart, she is the only friend i have and she is not going anywhere. what should i do?? ive taken her to the vet, they said its a behavioral issue. ive been giving her more attention, buying her more treats, etc. but the problem obviously isnt going away.
can anyone help?
-stressed out kitty companion