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We adopted a new cat about 2 months ago. We have a 5 year old male tabby, Oliver. Luna is a female 1 year old. When I adopted her I had been looking for months as Oliver loves to play and we really wanted him to have a playmate. We had a friend live with us for a few months and he had a small terrier and we fostered our daughters cat for about 6 weeks, separately. Oliver loved them both, just wanted to play nonstop, cuddle, you name it. It was really sweet to see.
After looking for quite a while, I found Luna. I had told the adoption group what I was looking for, a playmate for my cat. Luna was out in the adoption room in a cat tree, she just called to me. She was so sweet and loving, totally affectionate.
I was very careful to follow the rules of keeping her separate, swapping rooms, letting her out in the house while Oliver was away, feeding them on opposite sides of closed doors, cracking the door, letting them together very supervised, She was fine until the letting them together part. No hissing, no growling, she seemed happy to see him. But once we had them together she was a different cat. Very aggressive, lunging at him, swiping at him, to the point of yanking his collar off, chasing him. The final straw was her clawing at him and making him bleed. So now, she is in one bedroom while Oliver is out. Then we swap throughout the day.
We harness trained her. And we let them see each other briefly each day. But given the opportunity, she would lunge at him.
I am at a loss. I just don't know what to do. I am scared Luna will hurt Oliver. We also have bought different calming sprays, plugins and currently a collar, which does nothing to help.
She is as sweet as can be with us.
After looking for quite a while, I found Luna. I had told the adoption group what I was looking for, a playmate for my cat. Luna was out in the adoption room in a cat tree, she just called to me. She was so sweet and loving, totally affectionate.
I was very careful to follow the rules of keeping her separate, swapping rooms, letting her out in the house while Oliver was away, feeding them on opposite sides of closed doors, cracking the door, letting them together very supervised, She was fine until the letting them together part. No hissing, no growling, she seemed happy to see him. But once we had them together she was a different cat. Very aggressive, lunging at him, swiping at him, to the point of yanking his collar off, chasing him. The final straw was her clawing at him and making him bleed. So now, she is in one bedroom while Oliver is out. Then we swap throughout the day.
We harness trained her. And we let them see each other briefly each day. But given the opportunity, she would lunge at him.
I am at a loss. I just don't know what to do. I am scared Luna will hurt Oliver. We also have bought different calming sprays, plugins and currently a collar, which does nothing to help.
She is as sweet as can be with us.