Ok yea.. those texts were a lil.. out there. Maybe it is a lil more than an "friendly" I love you.
That's a very good thing. When I was younger, I was afraid to talk to my mom about things because I thought that she would be upset.Originally Posted by tinkrbl5
Well my eyes have been opened. I thought I was spending enough time with my daughters well i guess not enough. I told my girls that I love them no matter what and that we keep on talking. Nothing can surprise me anymore. (Now that I said that, ohhh my)
Originally Posted by glitch
Im looking at this very differently than everyone on here! When I was 14 I had friends, both male and female that were 18. We told each other we loved each other all the time, and 11 years later we still do! Its nothing sexual. Do you love your friends?? I would check out the situation better, talk to the girl in person before you do anything drastic if you havn't already talked to her face to face already! Me and my friends are as straight as they come and are all married, but we tell each other we love each other all the time.
How are the texts worded?? Like whats the whole text say?? Its hard to go off of 3 words what the OP really means!
Dont remember ever saying it was okay, I think I just said it needed to be checked out further... If I was in your boat, I would probably have your 17 y/o daughter give me the parents names... Since it was made blatently clear that the 18 y/o is interested in a little more than she should be!! I dont think gender should change the situation at all except people do have older friends.Originally Posted by tinkrbl5
Good news everyone.
Wanted to let everyone know they are safe from ever having any personal infor. released from a school. I went to the school to see if I could get the name of the mother of the 18 yr old. They said "NO" I explained that I had a situation that involved my daughter and this student and I wanted to speak to the parent about this. They said abosuletly NO!!!! I was also told that under the circumstances unless I saw the 2 together in a physical/emotional embrace beyond freindly then I may be able to do something but even then I would not be able to contact police because no crime has occured.
So I hope everyone can sleep better now that the School Administration will not give out any personal infor,phone, address, etc. ect. ..
Exactly, i think we have to remember that she's only 14 and very naive, where as the 18 year old is older and knows exactly what she's doing.Originally Posted by Tobi
After reading those messages, even though your daughter seemed not "innocent" in it all, it did seem like she was being targeted by the 18 year old.
My oldest daughter told the 18 yr old to back off yesterday. We will see if she does. One of her good friends is bi-sexual and knows the 18yr old. She told my oldest daughter that the 18 yr old does this all the time. She said the 18 yr old likes going after "freshmen" because they are new and don't "get it" and she has better chances at getting the girl to go out with her.Originally Posted by lunasmom
Maybe youre daughter is confused at how to handle this and doesn't want to be "mean". If this senior made threats of messing with some freshmen why doesn't your older step up and tell her to leave lil sis alone?