You already know my situation with my cat, that I had for 4 years. He hates me, I left him along, and try not to ask for love, since he only loves males, I gave up. But every evening he wants to hipnotise me by looking me streight in the eyes, and if I turn my eyes he runs and wants to attack. I am tired of this behavior, every evening I have to be careful before I go to bed, so he doesn't attack me. What can do ?