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Dear Fellow Cat Lovers.
We have adopted a second cat, aged six months, male, neutered. He's a delightful boy. Very sweet and loving and friendly. Fabulous with the children. Playful but not overly so. He's just fab.
Only our gorgeous old girl doesn't agree. She's eight. Always been the only cat. But seen to be ok with garden feline visitors. She's always slept at the end of our bed. She loves her home and to snooze the day away. She has always come for a cuddle on her own terms, usually when I lay on the bed.
However, our new boy has taken over her spot on the bed! I tried to shut him out so she could sleep on her spot but she didn't want to. So I ended up making her a bed elsewhere.
I introduced them following the advice on here, however it was a bit rushed as new cat escaped his room and spent the whole time chirping around our resident girl. But resident girl just wants to be left alone. She seems to tolerate him being nearby but if he tries to approach her she hisses and swats.
It's only been just over a week though. I kept him confined to a room for a few days, scent swapped etc.
There's no fighting as such, she (old cat) just won't let him
Approach her.
She just seems really put out and not herself, which I understand but I just feel bad and guilty and like I have spoilt her lovely life with us. But at the same time I love the new cat and happy we could give him a home.
Do I just leave them to it and hope they adjust? Young cat would very much like to play with old cat but right now that seems impossible!
I am trying to give my resident cat lots of love in the meantime.
We have adopted a second cat, aged six months, male, neutered. He's a delightful boy. Very sweet and loving and friendly. Fabulous with the children. Playful but not overly so. He's just fab.
Only our gorgeous old girl doesn't agree. She's eight. Always been the only cat. But seen to be ok with garden feline visitors. She's always slept at the end of our bed. She loves her home and to snooze the day away. She has always come for a cuddle on her own terms, usually when I lay on the bed.
However, our new boy has taken over her spot on the bed! I tried to shut him out so she could sleep on her spot but she didn't want to. So I ended up making her a bed elsewhere.
I introduced them following the advice on here, however it was a bit rushed as new cat escaped his room and spent the whole time chirping around our resident girl. But resident girl just wants to be left alone. She seems to tolerate him being nearby but if he tries to approach her she hisses and swats.
It's only been just over a week though. I kept him confined to a room for a few days, scent swapped etc.
There's no fighting as such, she (old cat) just won't let him
Approach her.
She just seems really put out and not herself, which I understand but I just feel bad and guilty and like I have spoilt her lovely life with us. But at the same time I love the new cat and happy we could give him a home.
Do I just leave them to it and hope they adjust? Young cat would very much like to play with old cat but right now that seems impossible!
I am trying to give my resident cat lots of love in the meantime.