Gray Bear is a feral cat. When he was young I was feeding him and his brother and sister. He would let me pet him and would even roll over and let me rub his belly. Would always come to me when I called him. He's about 2 years old now. One day he didn't show up. That was about 3 months ago. I figured he was gone for good. I was just accepting that fact when he showed up at the door this morning. I was so happy to see him but he won't come close to me at all. He talks to me from a distance. One problem is that the young kittens that are here are coming between us and he is afraid of the kittens. He runs away from them. Even if they are not close by he won't come to me when I call him. He looks very healthy. His coat looks shiny and smooth, not matted. His yellow eyes are clear. He is just very skittish. I don't know what to do. Any ideas?