I just got up and noticed that someone took the SMOKE DETECTER off the wall and removed the battery. They called another friend at 6am and asked him to bring over doughnuts. This person came and went while I was still asleep. Every time my son has any friend over they just go stupid. I've found numbers dialed on my cell phone that ended up being porn numbers, they have ripped branches off saplings in the yard, ripped boards off the fence, ripped the panal out of a door because they were locked out, every time there is something. I know they pulled the smoke detecter as I JUST checked the detecter when Kev gave us a reminder. Now everyone is saying that they didn't do it. AAAAARRRRRRRGGGGGHHHHHH. I just hate this. I hate people that lie! I need to call his mom and let her know what he has been up to. I hate having to call moms. I'm going to have to let her know her son is no longer welcome here. That also sucks. I have to ask this particular child to do his chores ten times over and still they don't get done. He is 14 and bi-polar and refuses to take him meds and it's going to put me in a hospital. I just can't take the asking and begging and yelling and his threats and his destroying things. We have no money for gifts this year and I just know there will be a scene about this too. They know how tight things have been and we have explained it to them, but they keep pointing things out like we can afford to get them. I'm so stressed out and there is nothing I can do to resolve it right now. I try to do little things for the kids like allowing a sleep over and they just go berserk.