one of my best girlfriends is going through a tough time trying to juggle between her boyfriend's financial problems and her own preganancy. She intends to abort the child as she does not have the capability to keep the child. I have talked to her and she has pretty much made up her mind about it.
for some of you who have known me since day 1 i came in, you should know my story and it is really tough trying to go through this with her and especially when this is her first.. she is lost and seeks my help in terms on deciding which hospital or which clinic to go for the abortion... somehow on my part I wish to block out this part of the memory.. the painful process of going through to call for appointments for the abortion, the prejudiced look on the nurses faces and all... it's just something which I have kept quiet about... am i selfish and all? but I do know she needs help and support now... so I'm helping her but she kept asking me which one I have gone and how much I have paid for it... gosh, it's tough trying to refrain from telling and giving my opinions... am I wrong?
for some of you who have known me since day 1 i came in, you should know my story and it is really tough trying to go through this with her and especially when this is her first.. she is lost and seeks my help in terms on deciding which hospital or which clinic to go for the abortion... somehow on my part I wish to block out this part of the memory.. the painful process of going through to call for appointments for the abortion, the prejudiced look on the nurses faces and all... it's just something which I have kept quiet about... am i selfish and all? but I do know she needs help and support now... so I'm helping her but she kept asking me which one I have gone and how much I have paid for it... gosh, it's tough trying to refrain from telling and giving my opinions... am I wrong?