This is a note really to all you women out there who sent me so many messages of support when I decided to go ahead and have the cruelest cut a man can have. Following my vasectomy, I received more support from women than I could ever imagine and was stunned by this and I thank you all for it.
Had it not been for you all and of course my wife (who I did it for more than anyone), I would not have got through it easily at all.
I had tests after 16 weeks ( a fortnight ago) and then on 18 weeks (yesterday) and I got the final set of results today.
I am delighted to say that the operation was a complete success and I have been thrilled to tell Carol this evening that for the first time in her life - the words - the pill - dont have to be used anymore. The onus is off her and I am happy as hell for her.
I would say to any husband, male friend that I know or you may and are adamant that no more children or cant have children for one reason or another - to have it done. Believe me, its the best thing I have ever done, my wife for the first time has freedom beyond anything she has ever had since I have known her and I love her even more for it.
So tell any males out there thinking about it - to stop thinking and get it done and if worried - use my email address.
.. and a huge thank you - mainly to you ladies who never once rediculed me, made me feel stupid, dumb or small but praised me for what I had done. I could not have made it without you all.
Best wishes
Kev
Had it not been for you all and of course my wife (who I did it for more than anyone), I would not have got through it easily at all.
I had tests after 16 weeks ( a fortnight ago) and then on 18 weeks (yesterday) and I got the final set of results today.
I am delighted to say that the operation was a complete success and I have been thrilled to tell Carol this evening that for the first time in her life - the words - the pill - dont have to be used anymore. The onus is off her and I am happy as hell for her.
I would say to any husband, male friend that I know or you may and are adamant that no more children or cant have children for one reason or another - to have it done. Believe me, its the best thing I have ever done, my wife for the first time has freedom beyond anything she has ever had since I have known her and I love her even more for it.
So tell any males out there thinking about it - to stop thinking and get it done and if worried - use my email address.
.. and a huge thank you - mainly to you ladies who never once rediculed me, made me feel stupid, dumb or small but praised me for what I had done. I could not have made it without you all.
Best wishes
Kev